is there a difference between being an alpha male and being a real pig? i've been labeled as the former by my girlfriend but kind of in a good way. i think
Hmmm. By being called the alpha male she means you are the big man in charge and that, depending on how you want to take it, is a good thing. Think about gorillas or lions for instants. Each group has has an alpha male. He's the alpha male because he's the best there is around and offers something that the female wants and needs.That doesn't mean sexually (although it helps) but rather it means you tend to more important things suggest you capable fo providing for her. Don't let that go to your head though because alpha males do eventually get dethroned by someone who is much better than them so keep that in mind :-) Balance it out and I think you'll be alpha male of the relationship for a long time.
Being called a pig could be a used in a jokingly way but usually it just means either you are sloppy in appearance, physically, mentally, environmentally, and possibly emotionally or it means that you a chauvinistic towards women and don't necessarily respect them and throw double-standards around in her face. either way it doesn't sound flattering unless she's referring you to Piglet of Winnie the Pooh-----he's cute and every girl wants to hug, squeeze, and love him :-)
You have to be an alpha male mate but that has nothing to do with being a pig. Alpha male just means the number one male there is also an alpha female for every alpha male. I think some chicks are jealous of dudes so they say stuff like alpha male pig to emasculate us so we act more like women thus making them more masculine. F.u.c.k these little tricks thinking like that. My girlfriend and I are both strong we are the alpha female and male. I am strong and certain and she loves me for it and I her. Maybe you could act in a way to be more proud of but most likely she don't know wtf shes on about.
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Hmmm. By being called the alpha male she means you are the big man in charge and that, depending on how you want to take it, is a good thing. Think about gorillas or lions for instants. Each group has has an alpha male. He's the alpha male because he's the best there is around and offers something that the female wants and needs.That doesn't mean sexually (although it helps) but rather it means you tend to more important things suggest you capable fo providing for her. Don't let that go to your head though because alpha males do eventually get dethroned by someone who is much better than them so keep that in mind :-) Balance it out and I think you'll be alpha male of the relationship for a long time.
Being called a pig could be a used in a jokingly way but usually it just means either you are sloppy in appearance, physically, mentally, environmentally, and possibly emotionally or it means that you a chauvinistic towards women and don't necessarily respect them and throw double-standards around in her face. either way it doesn't sound flattering unless she's referring you to Piglet of Winnie the Pooh-----he's cute and every girl wants to hug, squeeze, and love him :-)
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You have to be an alpha male mate but that has nothing to do with being a pig. Alpha male just means the number one male there is also an alpha female for every alpha male. I think some chicks are jealous of dudes so they say stuff like alpha male pig to emasculate us so we act more like women thus making them more masculine. F.u.c.k these little tricks thinking like that. My girlfriend and I are both strong we are the alpha female and male. I am strong and certain and she loves me for it and I her. Maybe you could act in a way to be more proud of but most likely she don't know wtf shes on about.
I don't think either is that much of a compliment.
Just wondering why your question was posted in Gay community questions?
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