am i a complete loser?
i am 18 years old, i haven't had a girlfriend since i was 10 and we hardly even held hands. girls hate me, hell most guys hate me, i have two friends and there not even close friends, i wont go on because im sure im boring you, much like I do with everyone i talk to. people say suicide is the easy way out and that sounds perfect for me.
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No you are not a loser.
There are a lot of people in similar situations.
Suicide is not the easy way out. It takes a lot of courage to commit suicide.
Your fate is in your hands.
You sound like you have a problem with your self-confidence. You probably are not giving people the chance to like you. You probably over-analyze everything people do and that screws up your perspective on how you think people view you. How do you know that you are boring? Have faith in people and don't ever underestimate yourself. If you feel that something maybe wrong with your behavior and personality, then maybe it is about time that you started being more accommodative and tolerative to people. Change yourself. Give in a little here and there. The fact that you never had a girlfriend doesn't make you a loser. Its lame to think that way. And another thing that is really lame is thinking of suicide. Don't you ever dare attempt to do that. You have your whole life ahead of you. 18 is a very difficult age...trust me...with all that peer pressure and what not. You are going through a phase that your puberty is contributing towards. Things actually get better after this you know. I had a terrible childhood so I know.
Suicide is only the way to nonexistence. It is not a way out. It is not the answer. The very fact that you are so concerned shows that you care enough to try to change. One good way to get to know people better, even those two friends better, is to be a good listener. Listen to their concerns (complaints?) People often like to talk about themselves. Also you may have some good suggestions for them. With you being so willing to listen to their concerns they will appreciate you more, and maybe listen to yours. Especially if you have some possible solutions for them. Help where you can. Just be there when they need someone. You don't need to push yourself on them, just volunteer help when needed. Question: How can someone hate you if they don't know you??? Stop beating yourself up. You are much better than you know. Around the holidays is a good time to help poeple. If only to shovel the snow off their doorstep. Stop concentrating on yourself and open yourself to others. You will be surprised how they will respond to you. If they don't want to get to know you, look at it as their loss and move on. I apologize for the long answer. You have a great Christmas and happy New Year.
1st: Do not turn suicide! Please don't! That is not the easy way out!That is the most horrible, worst thing you can do or think of. What about your family? They love you!
2nd: You are NOT a loser!
3rd: Go TRY talking to people. Maybe your just not open.. I was like that actually (still kinda am), but getting out of it kinda. But I would never even think of suicide!
Come on, don't think of yourself that way! Cheer up! Go talk to people (like at school and stuff).
I'm a bit like you too! It's just that we're different. You are boring because you are not hanging with the right people. I used to think the same way until I made some new friends who like me the way I am.
Go out, look for people who are like you, at least with similar taste. One thing is sure, they just won't come at you, go out look for them.
Don't loose hope. Even if you suicide, people just won't care, so why killing yourself because they don't care about you.
look man i understand how you feel ive been there and i still struggle with stuff like this ..but you deserve to have a good life ..i don't want you to kill yourself ..look i am open minded i wont preach to you ..but ill be there for you if you want to talk ..you can reach me at [email protected]
i dont want anything from you ..and you have nothing to loose so lets talk
1st suicide is never the answer "friends" may not like you but family does love you
beside if you lack confidence you will start/think that you a loser
cheer up
JC loves you
killing yourself is NOT the answer. I can be your friend add me and we can talk.
There is only one complete loser and I am he. Add me as a contact. We can talk.
Do you have PROOF suicide is a way out? how do you even know ?
Please don't end your life, if you do, you'll regret it, badly...
don't kill yourself