Hi I'm 14..
I've never liked anybody I don't think and I don't know what a fit or good looking boy looks like.. I don't care if boys have abs or whatever.. But I do know when a girl is really pretty or gorgeous I suppose...(Is this just because I'm a girl?)
I can look at a girl and think she's got a nice figure or good boobs. I look at how big girls boobs are and stuff like that and I don't even know why. I rarely ever talk to boys(but that's just coz all my friends in our group are girls).
For when I get older I wouldn't really want a boy looking at my body (even though I wouldn't wanna be naked with girls) or have their penis inside me...
As friiends I prefer girls to boys because they understand more and stuff...
Don't people usually know from young ages though?
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I am going to tell you this, but people would probably get mad that I am saying it. But you are just going through a phase. When I was your age I thought I might be a lesbian because I would look at girls and think they are pretty. It was a pretty confusing time of my life, but I eventually just grew out of it because I am 19 and I am totally comfortable in my sexuality and I know I am a straight woman. I do not want a romantic relationship with a girl and I get weak at the knees when the guy I like talks to me lol. But you know what? I do look at other girls boobs and sometimes their butts and im like what am I doing and I realize that I am sort of comparing myself to other girls without really realizing it. AND I even enjoy watching lesbian porn because, well, its just hot, but I have no desire of being with another woman. I think people judge their own sexuality too early these days. I know some girls that probably wouldn't be lesbians if people didn't constantly tell them that they might be a lesbian. Wait until you actually develop a healthy sex drive before you decide what you are. Just because you think a girl is pretty doesn't mean you are attracted to her.
I'm pretty sure most girls just find other girls pretty or attractive but not always an attraction in that way. I'd just give it some time. I count myself as a Bisexual...I've fallen in love with girls as well as guys. I remember thinking when I was around the age of ten i wouldn't mind dating or kissing, holding hands, etc, with my best friend...Later on fell in love with another best friend who was a girl...Maybe you'll just have to wait till you find a liking for someone :)
Not everyone. People come to terms with their sexuality at different times in their lives and not always when they're young.
Nothing about this makes you sound lesbian. Your disinterest in guys might be because of lack of experience. It's too soon to tell. When you think of the ideal mate, are they female or are they male? I think you should just wait and see who you fall for. Live your life, and wait for those experiences to come, and you'll know for yourself.
Trust me your not alone,im starting to think im bisexual or a possible lesbian or it can just be a phase my mind is thinking and if i told my mom i thought i was a lesbo she would gladly and quickly disown me so yeah it wasn't a answer just a little thing to let you know im going through what you are
I don't think so, just more comfortable around girls.
Maybe ur asexual..ur not sexually attracted toanybody. Bummer.