so me and my boyfriend had sex on october 17 with a condom .. and we've had sex twice since and yes, we used a condom. but there were time where he stuck it in without a condom for not even a minute but we're 100% sure there was no precum or anything ..
my period was supposed to come either last week or this week and it hasn't yet ... i took a pregnancy test today and it came out negative but for some reason i'm not 100% convinced ....
my breasts are kinda swollen (they've never been this big but they've been getting smaller), and i've been having pain in the hips that almost feel like cramps sometimes but i've never felt this, and today i've been really tired ( maybe it's just due to only getting 5-6 hours of sleep ... ) i also noticed that i feel bloated after i eat ... like my stomach feels a lot bigger even if i didn't eat that much ...
i'm taking vitamin C pills and parsley tea to try to get my period going because just the parsley tea worked last month ...
could i be pregnant or am i just paranoid?
and if i am pregnant, idk what i would do because i can't tell my dad .. i live in a really strict christian household and my mother passed away a year ago and i know that if she were here that she would be more helpful .. but i can't tell my dad because i honestly think he would kick me out of the house or something ...
help?
and please no rude comments .. i'm really worried :/
Update:he's only stuck it in twice btw ...
Answers & Comments
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Honestly it sounds like PMS but I would advise you take another test in a couple of weeks to be sure. Next time you have sex and something of this nature (faulty condom use) happens, you may want to go to planned parenthood for the morning after pill.
There is a chance that you are not far enough along for the test to have detected the hormones that trigger the positive result. Give yourself a couple of weeks (our menstrual cycles need to regulate themselves every now and then) and then if you have not gotten your period, take another test. First Response has always seemed the most sensitive for me (detected my pregnancy at 12days when I was your age)....Either way you need to talk to someone about it and your dad may not be as rigid as you think. When it comes to our children we tend to talk tough but in the end, they are still our children and we love them. All he wants is what is best for you.
Good Luck!!
The only real thing to do is call your local pregancy resource center or a doctor, cuz they may know a little more than some people on here, and if you are your baby will need prenatal care so don't wait to call a doctor, without prenatal care there could be side effects.