Okaii so let me give you the basics some people aren't very.. yah know.. into reading ;)
- I am 14
- He is 15
- We been to the movies w/ a group of people.. but he went with me...at first he said no.. then changed his mind.. it was also for my birthday and 3 guys went and 3 girls [[exactly]] including me
- We go to basketball games.. not together.. but end up hanging out
- he hugs me about all the time.. messes with my hair..jokes around w/ me all the time
- we talk on fb ALOT... i usually start the convos though
MAJOR THINGS TO KNOW..
- he told my friend he only likes me as a friend
- he is a big flirt && really nice guy...
Yes I know this is a stupid question... but alot of people have been saying he may of just said that because he's unsure about his feelings, he isn't ready for a relationship... idk... sure he flirts w/ other girls but he doesn't go to the movies w/ other girls... and he doesn't really hang out with many people at the basketball games..
opinions pleaaase<3 i would lovee themm.
i don't wanna risk getting hurt.. im kinda sure this is a dumb question though.. ;/
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It sounds as if he does have somewhat of a thing for you. Considering his age, he probably just said he likes you as a friend because he doesn't want to show his real feelings to his friends out of embarrassment. The only way to be sure is to just come out and ask him. Figure out what his feelings are, and if he isn't into you like you are into him, so be it. Hes just a guy, there are more out there.
Well, I think hes attracted to you. I don't know if you think about it, is this really the kind of guy you want to be with? He flirts with a lot of girls. What if you were dating and he was still kind of flirty with other girls, would you be ok with that? My honest opinion is that he isn't worth your time. HOWEVER, I think that he might have some feelings for you.
this is NOT dumb question. I am going through the EXACT same thing right now except that i am 17 and he is 16. sadly, i don't have an answer for you, i just thought you'd like to know that you are not the only one going through this
he might like you, but he may just not even realize he is flirting, and just enjoys hanging out with you... for now, trust what he said, but if it really bothers you, ask him... he is the only one who can tell you what he is feeling... if he says no, just say OK, just heard someone say otherwise and wanted to clarify... make it clear that you are happy just being friends with him!
it is also possible that he is insecure or didn't want word spreading and that he does like you, but like i said... no way to be sure unless you ask him directly..
good luck, hope this helps!
He might like you and since you said hes a flirt he might just be saying that to his friends for face, but if he really do like you as a friend try to make him view you another way. be more flirty with him please answer mine http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AvMij...
As long as he keeps his ***** in his pants he's fine