So, me and this guy have been dating for a year. We're in high school and I absolutely adore him, as he does me. We've had several other issues with other girls liking him and pushing themselves onto him and such, but they have cleared up. This year, I have become friends with an ex of his. We've been getting along great. However, she appears to be very competitive. She is always telling me stories of their past. She even told me about their first kiss! (which by the way, I told her not to.) More recently she has been quieter but has been calling him cute and telling other stories less frequently. This is really taking a toll on my self esteem and making me depressed. The strangest part, is she encouraged us to get together. She also has a boyfriend, who she also has been dating for almost a year. Me and my BF have never got in a single fight and are basically exactly like each other. He is going to talk to her, because he is upset about it. I don't know if this is the best idea... What would you do, random people?

I told him that if he is going to talk about it he should only say why it bothers HIM. I am too afraid to tell her yet, because I don't want to her to be mad at me. When I am ready I will talk to her.

Also, I feel like if I tell her it bothers me, she will probably continue to do it, but if he tells her, maybe she'll get the point. He is NOT available and she needs to stop.