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so there are these 2 hot brothers that i 'know'.
lucky me, BOTH of them have shown some kind of what alot of people would call signs of attraction. we'll call them guy1 and guy2.
so lets say that guy1 is the older one. i noticed he was giving me some 'attention' first, as he's done some questionable staring/glancing for a while now, and he always seems happy when i am around. but guy1 is going to college in the fall.
then, there's the younger of the 2, guy2, and recently ive noticed he's staring/glancing alot more than he did before. he even manages to 'casually' be somewhere nearby if we are in the same place, room, etc. if he does something funny, i'll laugh or smile or something, and he'll grin back.
so, i actually have a few questions... do you think there is a little brotherly competition going on here, or is it one or the other, or just neither? if it is one, do you think that one is using the other to 'spy' (if you would call it that)?
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A little, I think they are playing a game and you are the prize so I would exercise extreme caution unless you dont mind being the grand prize
Lucky you. I would say they both are showing an interest in you. Why not try getting two know each of them separately. Go on a few dates with each (no sex) and see which one you connect with. I doubt they're spying and there may be some competition but I wouldn't encourage it. If they have a good relationship they'll always choose each other over a girl.
ahh..i have had something similar, but trust me, its way too complicated.
im inclined to say dont touch either of them, just be friends.
IF both of them do like you, its going to cause so much **** between them if you go for either of them
but if you truly like them go for the younger, because the older is going away anway. be practical.:)
oh no.. they might be playing the "brother game". seeing which one you fall for faster and then they play you like you've never been played. dont fall into that hole too much. just play around and see what happens. it could be a trap. stand clear.
i dont think that its brotherly competition. they just both happen to like you and i doubt that one is there for spying. that would just be weird.
i think the younger one likes u and is probally shy to tell u?!!so i would keep talkin and flirtin with him and maybe u guys will be in a relationship??who knos
may prognosis is that they both like you and have said to each other "hey we wont fight lets just see whoever see chooses. the choice is urs and urs are the choices
hmmm...weird...did they both start giving signs of attraction at the same time ??
Go for the good-looking-ist one lol