I have a girlfriend, shes totally insane, constantly picking fights and go's crazy for nothing, calls me all the names under the sun and thinks she can get away with it. Her ex is a dealer and heard rumours that he was in jail before, shes sorta low. But she tells me that at work she always feels the need to cry all the time and is always angry and moody, i get scared of her when she has these mood swings cos she throws things, cries, and slammes doors. She tells me she loves me and last day after a huge row she went to hit me and i pushed her away from me in a car park with everyone watching, she still gets in my car and is crying and tells me she loves me so much, i dont believe it. We do a long distance relationship, shes french im Irish, she was erasmus student in Ireland last year and we met at uni, ever since sept we see eachother 1 time monthly. She knows she needs help, i know she needs help .... she told me when she was younger, she would upset her family so much they would cry so she could comfort them and make her feel good, im thinking she might have been abused i dont know and she told me she wasnt,....... but what can it be ?