Do men value loyalty/integrity anymore
even if its at the expense of having a "supermodel" wife/gf?
Idk...it's just been getting me down that I'm not the least bit glamorous, no makeup, a little jewelry, jeans & a tee etc. But I feel like I would be the one who would stay by my man's side even when things get low. I don't nag, care about money or looks or any of it. I just want someone sincere & dedicated to me for life. I don't like arguing & I don't mind pitching in & doing more work to make us last.
But all guys want these days is fun & flirty, giggly girls...and I'm just not like that! =0 It's like no matter what, I'm being compared to them..
What do I do?!?
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Somewhat older men do...I'm twenty and a guy and I value what you are, certainly.
When people have to work to eat, study and sleep in a bed, they understand quickly that a giggly girlfriend doesn't get you very far.
Let me be optimistic here. It's possible that some guys look at the way a girl dresses and takes care of herself as an indication of how she thinks of herself. Understand, I'm not saying this is so, I'm saying it is a possibility. The younger a guy is, often the less he looks for depth in a girl, unless he is looking for someone to marry. If you are comfortable with your appearance, then that's what counts. When the right guy comes along, he'll be comfortable with you as you are. I know I wouldn't date a guy who was sloppy and didn't care how he looked. I don't think that's what you're referring to but that does say that I do take into consideration how a guy presents himself. I feel men still value loyalty and integrity and they also value the way their wife/gf presents herself. You must still be yourself..for yourself. You can't try to be someone you aren't to satisfy others. So hang tight and be the way you are happiest.
Do nothing, you have great quality's and not all men are that way usually men who look for and care for what you described most are the ones who don't last or just haven't reached a mature age relationship-wise
Guys that go for these girls are just looking to get laid and are not worth your time or energy. There are nice guys out there but they are becoming an endangered species. Don't fret so much, and you will find someone who is prefect for you.
Stay true to yourself. Be who you are and don't ever change that for anyone.....not even a man. Stay strong and the perfect man is out there for you. He will come along when you least expect it.
Have patience, be yourself. You see it all the time, guys see a fancy sports car and they all want to get in it and rub their hands on it, then they grow up and start to look beyond the flashy chrome. you will find a guy that has grown up.
I value loyalty and integrity.
nope