Do You Feel More Special When You Are Pregnant?
I don't know about every one else. but for some reason being pregnant makes me feel like Im more important. people look at you better, treat you better during pregnancy. Maybe this is just me having a low self esteem, and I know its silly. but being pregnant makes me feel complete in a weird way, having a baby inside of me is such an amazing feeling, knowing that im taking care of a life, nurturing and nourishing. I have a daughter who is a year old, and Im a good mother. just wondering if other people feel like this about pregnancy, or does it represent that something else pychologically. I do have depression.
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you are important. you always are every women and men have a role in life, even if we dont know what it is.your carrying for a buetiful baby. who you will look after(hopefully). your role is to pass all of you and you mate on to one precious child. people are treating you better cause now there lookin out for not only you but the living thing inside of you. you should not hve low self esteeem. im sore your buetiful young lady.your children are the part of you no man or women or person can take from you there what make you you. they show you the way and eventually will tell you how it is. thats what makes you they will show you your role in life. a nuturing,caring mother.:)
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I have to say the opposite, but I also have 4 children and a husband who works 60+ hours a week 7 days a week! I clean, cook, transport, mow, take care of 3 dogs, 3 kids, work and do it pretty much alone. And when I don't do sitters or nannies so there are no breaks!
If you're pregnant dear, you'll have bouts of depression and other mood swings, BUT NEVER TAKE THE SERIOUSLY!
If people see your stomach, especially women, they go "Awww" and want to do anything for you, not let you lift ANYTHING, make sure you're not hungry, etc. And guys too, they fond all over the idea of giving a preggers woman a seat! It's nice to be taken care of by people you don't know...
im 37 weeks pregnant and im not feeling so special. im in pain and its hard to move around these days. i hate to have people do things for me and its getting to the point i can hardly get my pants on by myself. im sure that i felt special early on but now its to the point im over being pregnant and cant wait for the baby to be out.
God yes, people SPLATTER you in attention! And if you are suffering from depression, it probably does help to boost your ego and help you out when you're feeling down. I'm the exact same way and I think those are completely normal feelings.
Not only that, but doesn't it give you a lot of pride to tell people that you're carrying a baby? :) I always love the smiles on their faces because they match my smile. And I love that.
My husband has made me feel very special every single day prior to me becoming pregnant, so now it's no different. This time of pregnancy is all about our unborn twins, and doing all that I can for THEM, not myself.
No, I do not feel more special than anyone else. Pregnant or not.