i think you do..."any genital contact between two people"
also the answer to your other question
commitment is when you commit idk like promise yourself to someone/thing else...it also depends on how deep and what kind of commitment for example
*if you promise to walk the dog everyday then you commited yourself and time to do the action
In a relationship on the other hand:
If your liking a girl and you won't commit then your not establishing a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship with that person--you may like them but you may also not want to be with them "you can't have you cake and eat it too" in other words you can't have ownership (or a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship) of the girl and not be dating her at the same time---its not fair to her
to feel committed to someone you must whole-heartedly want to establish a relationship with that person, maybe you think that just because you really care about that person that you don't need to lable it as dating or as you two being girlfriend/boyfriend
--and maybe the "commitment" the other person is looking for is that labling of you two being a couple...
i would probably help if you explained more the history of the relationship if your talking about one and its relation to commitment
Yup. Oral sex and anal sex is still sex and you lose your virginity by having sex.
Or you can think of it this way:
When you are penetrated (if your a girl) or your penis penetrates (if your a dude) a mucus membrane like the mouth, the vagina, and/or the anus then you lose your virginity. (I'm pretty sure the anus is a mucus membrane. Even if it isn't it's still being penetrated)
Besides, if you didn't lose your virginity by oral or anal then that would mean every homosexual person who has engaged in oral and/or anal sex in the world unless they've been with someone of the opposite sex, is a virgin. I'm not sure if there are many homosexuals who would consider themselves virgins after oral and/or anal...but I could be wrong. (doubt it...but I could be)
If you're religous and believe in the Bible, spiritually, you're no longer a virgin according to God's standards. He has very high standards, and anal is sodomy. That's not encouraged at all. It's frowned upon, as well as oral. It's inappropriate behavior. The anus is for exspelling feces, and your mouth is for eating and speaking and whatnot, not for private areas. And the penis/vagina is to reproduce and exspell urine, so yeah.
SPIRITUALLY, participating in anal/oral makes you a NON-virgin.
ACCORDING TO SOCIETY though, you ARE still a virgin.
Society only considers vaginal sex the act that makes you no longer a virgin.
It depends on your definition. The strictest of definitions say 'yes, you do!', the loosest ones say you only lose your virginity through vaginal sex. The term viriginity has become very ambigious. My friend is a lesbian - she in no way consideres herself a virgin, but she has never had vaginal sex before.
I personally still felt like a virgin after oral sex. That will vary from person to person. The question will be - do you consider yourself a virgin after these things? Depending on religious views or personal morals, pick an answer, stick with it, and make sure whatever you do, you do it safely!
19, freshman in college What confident me to do it? I "fell in love" for the first time. No, i don't sense sorry about it, he turned right into a reliable guy. I disagree with your evaluation of the common GS individual. i imagine seventy 5% are unmarried, and the final age is likely 25. only a wager, yet i have been the following virtually 2 years now, so I observe issues.
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i think you do..."any genital contact between two people"
also the answer to your other question
commitment is when you commit idk like promise yourself to someone/thing else...it also depends on how deep and what kind of commitment for example
*if you promise to walk the dog everyday then you commited yourself and time to do the action
In a relationship on the other hand:
If your liking a girl and you won't commit then your not establishing a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship with that person--you may like them but you may also not want to be with them "you can't have you cake and eat it too" in other words you can't have ownership (or a girlfriend/boyfriend relationship) of the girl and not be dating her at the same time---its not fair to her
to feel committed to someone you must whole-heartedly want to establish a relationship with that person, maybe you think that just because you really care about that person that you don't need to lable it as dating or as you two being girlfriend/boyfriend
--and maybe the "commitment" the other person is looking for is that labling of you two being a couple...
i would probably help if you explained more the history of the relationship if your talking about one and its relation to commitment
Yup. Oral sex and anal sex is still sex and you lose your virginity by having sex.
Or you can think of it this way:
When you are penetrated (if your a girl) or your penis penetrates (if your a dude) a mucus membrane like the mouth, the vagina, and/or the anus then you lose your virginity. (I'm pretty sure the anus is a mucus membrane. Even if it isn't it's still being penetrated)
Besides, if you didn't lose your virginity by oral or anal then that would mean every homosexual person who has engaged in oral and/or anal sex in the world unless they've been with someone of the opposite sex, is a virgin. I'm not sure if there are many homosexuals who would consider themselves virgins after oral and/or anal...but I could be wrong. (doubt it...but I could be)
If you're religous and believe in the Bible, spiritually, you're no longer a virgin according to God's standards. He has very high standards, and anal is sodomy. That's not encouraged at all. It's frowned upon, as well as oral. It's inappropriate behavior. The anus is for exspelling feces, and your mouth is for eating and speaking and whatnot, not for private areas. And the penis/vagina is to reproduce and exspell urine, so yeah.
SPIRITUALLY, participating in anal/oral makes you a NON-virgin.
ACCORDING TO SOCIETY though, you ARE still a virgin.
Society only considers vaginal sex the act that makes you no longer a virgin.
It depends on your definition. The strictest of definitions say 'yes, you do!', the loosest ones say you only lose your virginity through vaginal sex. The term viriginity has become very ambigious. My friend is a lesbian - she in no way consideres herself a virgin, but she has never had vaginal sex before.
I personally still felt like a virgin after oral sex. That will vary from person to person. The question will be - do you consider yourself a virgin after these things? Depending on religious views or personal morals, pick an answer, stick with it, and make sure whatever you do, you do it safely!
19, freshman in college What confident me to do it? I "fell in love" for the first time. No, i don't sense sorry about it, he turned right into a reliable guy. I disagree with your evaluation of the common GS individual. i imagine seventy 5% are unmarried, and the final age is likely 25. only a wager, yet i have been the following virtually 2 years now, so I observe issues.
Yes, you do. It's not any less intimate than vaginal sex.
How could you call yourself a virgin if you have done this?
No you have to have intercourse. If you go anal your *** will lose it's virginity you won't.
No. It has to be done viginal intercourse to lose your virginity. Good luck!
Yes becuz it still sexual contact.
if your a homo you do....lol lol lol
your too young to do anything... wait another 5 years