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This is an excellent question! Perfectly worded! And also a question I've been wanting to ask myself! Your points are so hitting home with me! I don't think you are becoming cold hearted at ALL. You are learning what you want and growing as a person. I admire that. This line says it best:

"I feel like a lot of people get comfortable with the relationship they are in and even though they don't feel fulfilled they are scared of the pain they will have to go though to get out, so they settle".

And what happens when they settle? They are miserable. What happens when they get out? They are free to find something better, and being alone and happy is NOT a bad thing. I am still hoping to find that strong love too. If you believe it you can find it. We cannot give up! Anything is possible.

Keep us posted, and thank you for this great question.

Well When you have more break ups you learn how to have a better relationship. You learn what to and what not to do. I think true love is real, but there is never a way to know if you are getting closer to finding that right person. Sometimes people get lucky, by taking chances, and they find that person. But mostly people don't really find that one person that is 100% perfect for them. And yes people do give up early and settle, But that is just how life works. The best you could do is wait until you find someone that is as close to true love as you can get.

I think your issue may not be if true love exists, but if there is a constant romantic love that people experience throughout their life. The answer to that is no, not really. It can start off as romantic love and then it moves to comfortable love.

I'm marrying my sweetheart this October. I've been with him 8 years (he's 24 now and I'm 25). I was the one with cold feet - he asked me to marry him the first month we dated! The thing is that we are two separate individuals with separate feelings and separate lives. I come home after work, he cooks dinner, we eat separately than play a round of Nazi Zombies on the X-Box. We go grocery shopping on the weekends, we go book shopping once a month, we talk together about all our issues, and we have a lot of arguments. What's important to me is he's someone I can rely on in a tough situation. He'll stick by my side no matter what.

That's the kind of love you should be looking for - separate you're individual, together you're a team.

You just have to find what's right for you. There's no other half to your soul. You are a whole soul.

Good luck!

Yes true love does, and can exists. Me personally i find that way too many ppl always rush into a relationship and never get become true friends with that person there intersted in a chance to really get to them. I think you should become true friends w/ that person first and everything will just fall into place!!!

Your probably getting close to finding your match mate in heavon keep on searching and your not the only oe that gets stronger each break up

True love never ends,frustration,loneliness,in life ,no time for love

are the reasons not finding true love.

Must 'true love' be always associated with relationships? That's the question.

True love can come at any time so dont give up ! who knows You mite have met this person already and He just hasent aproched You yet. good luck at finding true love.

The answer to this question is: For sure,yes.

I totally agree.. and hope you are on to something about getting closer. :)