Hey, im 15 years old and a guy and i've been recently worried that my social life kinda sucks. I'm not exactly the most social person, and i enjoy my alone time so i don't expect to have good social life nor do i want it. I just finished year/grade 10 this year and im going to start year 11 in feb (Australia is different to America). Inside of school i don't have THAT many friends, but i am in a group with about 3 other people and we're fairly close. I'm generally liked in my school though, so that's good. Outside of school, all i really do is hang out with 1 or 2 friends and pretty much just play basketball or tennis about once a week. I also have friends over every now and then, but that doesn't happen too often. I do stay in contact with my friends using msn and facebook though. I haven't been to any type of party since like grade 6, i was invited to 1 this year but i couldn't go because i was at a cousins house 2 hours drive away. This is pretty much ALL my social life consists of, What do you guys think?
BQ: What was your social life like in grade 10/11?
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Not at all, my social life was nearly the same and I didn't find it to be out of the ordinary. In my opinion, your social life isn't that bad.
In my personal opinion I think its better to have a few close friends then a lot of unclose friends. I think your over thinking this though because I haven't been to a legit party since 7th grade. I have hung out with friends though but it wasn't officially a party. Its fine that you were at your cousins house sometimes I hang out with my cousins instead of friends. I am 15 and a freshman (year 9 I think) so I don't know what it is like then but it is pretty good now.
Your social life does not suck, my grades 10-11 were just like yours =) you CAN be happy with your self trust me. Do not care about being popular, easier said than done but not impossible.
At 15, I started smoking weed, doing ecstasy, shrooms and various painkillers. I left my school for online school and I stole clothes from American Apparel. I stayed out all night going to raves and wild parties. I was a pretty fxcked up kid.
You're on Yahoo!Answers on the weekend? I think that pretty much sums up your social life.
you've asked this many many times now