First of all I hope this is a serious question. So, if this is the case I would say that the gist of your question is in the second part "...because it is so wrong". Personally, being a gay male I don't believe it is wrong. It is just the way some people are. The way to get rid of something like that is to hate it, in other words to become a homophobe. My personal opinion is that you should not change the way you are, but if you insist you have definitely come to the wrong section asking for advice.
Just let it be. Liking is only a feeling of affection. You don't have to pursue things further if you don't choose to. The two aren't worlds apart in any case and beauty comes in many forms. A beautiful person is going to be beautiful regardless of gender, so you can't say - I can't find him beautiful because he's a boy! Either he is or he isn't beautiful and no shame on you for admitting you find him so.
You like who you like, and its OK. There's nothing wrong with it. Its only an "emotional problem" because you decided to make it into one.
However, if it really bothers you that much, then just keep in mind that since you say you also like women, you can choose to date and have relationships only with women. IOW, you can like effeminate gay men and find them attractive, and still choose NOT to date them or have romantic relationships with them.
So wrong... so very very wrong... oh, woe is you! It is so very very wrong. I cant think of a thing that is more wrong. It couldnt be more wrong. It is like, sooooo wrong. Grow up. I just wanna say, I was being scarcastic. I'm gay myself.
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First of all I hope this is a serious question. So, if this is the case I would say that the gist of your question is in the second part "...because it is so wrong". Personally, being a gay male I don't believe it is wrong. It is just the way some people are. The way to get rid of something like that is to hate it, in other words to become a homophobe. My personal opinion is that you should not change the way you are, but if you insist you have definitely come to the wrong section asking for advice.
Just let it be. Liking is only a feeling of affection. You don't have to pursue things further if you don't choose to. The two aren't worlds apart in any case and beauty comes in many forms. A beautiful person is going to be beautiful regardless of gender, so you can't say - I can't find him beautiful because he's a boy! Either he is or he isn't beautiful and no shame on you for admitting you find him so.
You can't just stop liking the boys.
You like who you like, and its OK. There's nothing wrong with it. Its only an "emotional problem" because you decided to make it into one.
However, if it really bothers you that much, then just keep in mind that since you say you also like women, you can choose to date and have relationships only with women. IOW, you can like effeminate gay men and find them attractive, and still choose NOT to date them or have romantic relationships with them.
It aint wrong bro, and it doesn't mean your gay or anything.
plenty in fact flipping LOADS ! of Heterosexual (straight) people have a stage in their sex life where they like guys or girls from their own sex.
Completely normal don't worry about it.
Ignore some of these people man.. they are giving you ridiculous answers and are trying to make you feel uncomfortable.
Dude, there's nothing wrong with liking guys. :3 But maybe it isn't you. So just do what I did:
Date a guy
Date a girl
NOT AT THE SAME TIME!
choose.
If you like one over the other, then you know!
If you like both, you like both.
But there's nothing wrong with it.
It's not wrong buddy, it's actually the opposite! so if you really need guidance on religious beliefs go here it's the truth: )
hoperemains.webs.com trust me it practically saved my soul, my life, my sanity, and my self respect trust me ya gonna wanna know this stuff!
and you're probably bi...like me! so embrace and love yourself! good luck in discovering who you truly are!
: )
So wrong... so very very wrong... oh, woe is you! It is so very very wrong. I cant think of a thing that is more wrong. It couldnt be more wrong. It is like, sooooo wrong. Grow up. I just wanna say, I was being scarcastic. I'm gay myself.
You should be yourself simple as that do not be afraid of who you are, even if you think it is wrong!
*sighs*
You sound almost exactly like that Josh guy from an hour ago... Another one who needs to grow up.
Dont stop yourself from being yourself....