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It sounds like he does like you again. If you like him still then just tell him and he will understand and make something more, if he gets mad at you (which he shouldn't) then he isn't worth it anyway. I dated a girl for 2 years, we broke up 3 months later I realized I made a mistake and asked her back out and we dated for 7 months before she admitted that what I thought I had made a big mistake wasn't because she had been cheating on me etc. So, I then dumper her and have been dating another girl for 6 months and everything is great. Basic point of my story is that if you like him, sit and talk to him and if he doesn't like you or gets mad at your for telling him your feelings then he isn't worth it anyways, because remember there is always plenty of fish in the sea. And although right now you may not believe you can live without him and may think that all the fish in the sea are all sharks, but if he doesn't work out, you'll realize you where wrong and had to learn a tough love lesson. However do just tell him and take it from there ... Hope this helps!.

no worries, you've got a million years left to figure out your love life... your broken heart will heal completely. as far as your dilemma, first realize that he's as young and confused as you are about the situation. to open the topic, you might just say something honest like "I miss the fun we used to have when we were going out" and see how he responds.

try not to get too wrapped up in your emotions, just take it easy and let things happen slowly. "if a guy wants a relationship with you, he will make it happen" - watch the movie He's Just Not That Into You for more details.

also consider just staying friends. true friends are hard to find, but romantic relationships come and go. most likely, you will date a dozen other guys over the next ten years until you find one you want to marry, so what happens with this dude really isn't too significant if you consider the big picture.

it's very possible that your ex- may have asked the question about "beau" because he was curious or to express interest in your life the same way any other friend would. on the other hand, he might have been collecting info to find out if it's worth making a move to start things up with you again. either way, it was not an invitation for you to take action. whatever happens, good luck!

Seriously, when you add in labels like boyfriend or best friend it creates rules and regulations. Forget all these ideas of how things are supposed to be. You are two individuals and it just so happens that you two enjoy one another. Maybe you even like each other more than you like anyone else. Just because he is the best option you have right now for a partner does not mean he is a good option.

Don't worry about whether or not you two should or shouldn't be together. Just be spend time together and feel it out. If you want to be honest with him about how you feel, make your feelings more specific. Tell him things like, "I enjoy talking with you", "I like the way you tell stories", "I am quite attracted to you". Statements like these are true and can be true whether your in a relationship or not.

you're a lot younger than i expected, but hopefully my answer will provide some help no less. it seems to me like this dude likes you, otherwise he wouldn't be finding out if you were single or not. try talking to him alone about how you both feel about each other. the point of this is to try and get him to open up to you. just ask him straight up (i'm a dude and i like it if a girl is straight up with me) how he feels about you. look him in the eye while you're talking. ask him if he would want to be with you because you would like to be with him. tell him that before you made a mistake and that there's no word that you can think of to describe how much you've regretted that mistake. tell him how you feel about him, basically just say to him what you've said here. hopefully things will work out for the two of you. hope my answer has helped you out in some way.

WELL THAT IS A TOUGH PROBLEM BUT ,,,

IF YOU LIKE HIM AND HE USED TO LIKE YOU

THEN WHATS THE WORST THAT CAN HAPPEN?

HE CAN JUST SAY NO. I WOULD SAY THAT YOU

AND HIM SHOULD JUST TAKE IT EASY FOR AWHILE

AND NOT RUSH BECAUSE YOU ARE BOTH STILL 14

MAYBE WHEN BOTH OF YOU ARE IN HIGH SCHOOL

THEN MAYBE YOU CAN START BUT OTHER THAN THAT

I THINK YOU SHOULD JUST STAY FRIENDS BUT THE THING ABOUT BEING FRIENDS YOU SHOULD TELL HIM EVERYTHING ESPECIALLY YOUR FEELINGS INCLUDING ABOUT HIM...

JUST DAY SOMETHING LIKE "HEY I AM REALLY SORRY ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED BETWEEN US AND I WANT TO GO BACK TO HOW IT WAS."START WITH A REGULAR CONVERSATION OR SOMETHING AND THEN WHEN YOU HAVE NOTHING LEFT TO SAY SAY THAT BECAUSE ITS TRUE AND EVERYTHING...BUT THEN AGAIN IF YOU WAIT TO LONG THEN HE WILL PROBABLY THINK HE IS WASTING HIS TIME WITH YOU AND GO OUT WITH SOMEBODY ELSE SO I WOULD DO THIS BEFORE ITS TO LATE.

If I'm understanding you right, they asked you if you would be willing to meet with your boyfriend's ex, because she wants to be involved with your baby when it comes? That's not a good situation; you don't want to get into a lot of drama. Tell them that you appreciate the thought, but you feel that this ex of his shouldn't be involved in your lives AT ALL, and that you and your boyfriend just want to move on from the past.

If he was your ex he probably still has some interest in you. So if you like him i think you should just tell him because if he meets another girl you will regret it, so just let him know you have feelings for him again but dont just go out and tell him you're in love with him or something, because that would maybe weird him out, it would me.

If he asked you if you were single that probably means he wants to go out with you again and if he wants to go out with you you should tell him you like him and maybe thats what he is looking for you to say so he knows for sure he will get a yes.

oh wow... thats a really tough position to be in:(

*hugs* if your afraid to tell him that you still care about him because he may not like you anymore then dont be with him dear. It isnt worth loosing your self image and self respect to crawl back to a guy that stopped loving you because you told him that you love/like him...

that just really isnt love. Love is impetuous wonderful feelings that are impossible to ignore or explain. if he were to do something extra special like go to all your friends and talk to them or bribe them or whatever he needs to do to figure out why your acting a certain way with him.. then he probably loves you enough to do anything. but the way you describe the situation... it just doesnt seem like he is willing to do that. i really do hope this situation gets cleared up and you find what it is you need :)

aww...i c too much goign on in ur hrt rt now..but dont wry things should clear up soon.

considering u already asked him out earlier and he refused u..i think it's ur time to give him some hints but not ask him out directly. Any more pain is not reqd so just wait and keep ur hrt safe until he asks u out this time. But make sure that he has some idea that u do still like him.

hope it wrks out for u 2 :)