I have a friend that is a professional and she tells me to call her anytime and in her voicemails she never says don't call me at work, she'll leave me a message and just say give me a call anytime. When I call her at home or elsewhere she will answer big and loud with HELLO...but today I called her at 5 pm thinking she would be done at work, and at work, she answers the phone really softly with hello, to where you almost cant even hear her and then she'll leave the room and talk a minute. I realize that anyone that would call her at work she would be that way with and it isn't anything personal, but how do I convince myself of that and not let my social anxiety plant thoughts in my head, like shame on you, you called her at work. When she said on the phone today hold on one second so I can leave the room I am still at work, I said Oh I am sorry, and she said, "Oh no, its okay, I should have been out of here hours ago". If she didn't really like me she wouldn't have answered the phone, right? Everytime I call her even at work, she always answers.
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Just think about this, she was at work when you called her, you shouldn't be worry that she doesn't like you, the reason why she answered like that its because of her job, she probably has coworkers and her boss or some kind of supervisor around her, she cannot afford to answer normally around them or loud and she probably has to step out her job just to see what you need, But I do think that she likes you and cares about you, if not she would just ignore the call, but since its you she answers thinking you are in trouble or so you won't think she doesn't want to answer you. I am like that when Im at work too, when a friend or a family member called me I answer with a very low voice and just talk for like a minute. Just keep in mind that she can get in trouble if she just start conversating with you on the phone. But do not worry, if she wouldn't like you, she would ignore you completely.
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