since im with my gf im so unhappi. she is calling me all the time and she goes to another school and when i go t her parties she makes a lot of physical contact with everybody (guys) whic makes me feel like something is hidden from me and it makes me sad u know and i feel like shes taking the life away from me...she is a rich girl which has a very ignorand family and i dont know if to leave her or not..she says she loves me but sometimes i think she is lying so bad...weve been together for a year and a half...im 14
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alright, i dont really want to break your heart, but i think its time you break hers- dump her :(
i dont know about you, but when im in a relationship, I look for someone who really cares for me, loyal and faithful and someone who looks as though they would want to be with me forever.
no offense but i dont think your girlfriend has any of those traits. i mean if she's touching those boys when she's infront of you, god knows what she's doing behind your back.
she goes to another school, you dont have a reputation or anything to lose. if she hurts you, dump her, no one should ever make you feel that upset.
It's okay to be mixed up about your feelings for girls. If she really loved you though, she would a. respect your personal space and b. the only guy she would need to be physical with is you. There is no excuse for that.
A relationship should be inspiring to you and to others looking in, if you are not happy, then there is no need to be with her. There IS someone out there that will respect your boundaries, and make you feel like you're on top of the world. You owe it to yourself to find her. (:
You only stay with someone when you are very happy with them and they reciprocate. All other relationships, pre living together/marriage should not be continued. Why would you want to continue if you are not happy, it doesnt matter if she says she loves you, she probably says that to other boys too. She is a flirt and enjoying it, at your expense too. Stop seeing her now, there are far better girls, probably in your school.
The main question in whether to keep up a relationship is how you feel about her. The best part is your young and you have plenty of time to date around. It sounds like she isn't ready to commit to a serious relationship so I would factor that into your decisions also.
A year and a half is a long time. is this a problem you have been having from the get go? if so, you need to break up the relationship. but if not you just need to talk with her. if she is unable or unwilling to change break up.
bin her shes a slut in the making, give it a few years n she will be on high numbers, find a decent gf, usually at ur age the quiet ones blossom into the best :)
HMM...that's really harsh! because im a girl i know, its probably to make you jealous or to get your attention. If you still feel uncomfortable ask her about it, but don't break up with her with out asking about it otherwise it might just break out into catastrophe!
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hate to say it but i agree with the others.. it sucks but two days after u do it ull know uve made the right decision. ive been in a similar situation before.
14?! wtf. teenagers these days. anyway, saying that she makes a lot of physical contact with guys sums up to.. SHE'S A FLIRT! and if it bugs you so much, then talk to her about it.. let her know how you feel. and ignore her family, you don't necessarily love her family, you love HER. man up! talk to her about what's been going through your head.