Well she is obviously the type of person that cares a huge amount about her exs and is the type of person to get easily attached. I completely understand why you are getting mad at her, I'm getting annoyed just by reading this haha. There are a couple of options for you to make - all depending on whether or not and how much her obsessions are getting in the way of your friendship and of others. Firstly you can ignore this part of her and focus on the points and reasons as to why you are friends in the first place. Or, if it is all getting to much to handle, you should take her aside so that you are completely alone, or invite her over your house, and sit down and have a really big D & M with her (deep and meaningful chat). You should explain to her that as a friend you want to look after her and that her obsessions with the friend/ex code thing is jeopardising all of her friendships with the girls. Tell her that you completely understand her for the way she is behaving (even though you don't, haha) and think that it would be best for her to just back off a little. Let her know that if anything it would be good for her to let other girls to even like her exs so that she can move on- because it is not normal or good for her to feel this way. Put her in the shoes of some of your other friends- 'if you were crazily crushing on one of our friend's exs (that were together ages and ages ago) and she had a go at you because of it and got pissed off how would you feel?' ect.

Orr you can tell her to grow up and get f*@#d - if you think she needs it.

Good luck, girls can be tough to deal with I know :) I'm still learning now haha

Girls are definitely weird about that. I think its nonsense. I think if she had just recently broke up with some one, you'd need to wait, as a favor. But after 3-4 months, she needs to move on. Either she still has feelings for this one specific guy, or she's just jealous and doesn't want you to be with some one she isn't. I'd ask her why shes so against this person dating an ex without using the words "girl code" or "just because". Get a legitimate answer, or say that it will be difficult to follow the code.

I understand where she's coming from, she still likes her ex. BUT! they broke up 3 years ago, she shouldn't be trying to control who he goes out with. She needs to get over him. If it was a month or 2 after they broke up I'd say "follow the girl code" but it's not...it's been 3 years, so tell her to back off.

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That's silly.

Especially considering people date alot when your in school so it wouldnt make sense to not date your friends ex's especially if you have what is that called oh yeah friends!

and uhm if he dumped her badly then yeah thats a no no

Well if it's bn 3yrs then she needs to get over it. Yeah when a friend first breaks up with a guy, her friends shouldnt date him but once she is over him, fair game. Me and my friends agreed it was ok as long as the friend asked if it was ok, if he wasn't a good guy then of course we all knew.

Guy Here.

I would feel weird if someone close to me dated an ex.

No matter what.

You probably would too.

It's just odd.

You're risking a friendship.

I agree with the girl code and I'm a guy. lol

Tell your friend that since she's no longer with the guy, she needs to lay off and let things work themselves out. She is out of his love life now and needs to come to terms with that.

I'm assuming you are the one that likes her ex now. It doesn't matter what "code" your school follows, its a worldwide girl code that you do NOT date your friends ex...unless you want to lose your friendship.

ya if its over 3 years ago they arent getting back together anytime soon so why not? i mean ur freind should be over her ex by now so, to me, hes up for grabs. idk whats up with ur friend but maybe she is bipolar?

im not trying to be mean two freind s ive known since forever are bipolar and sometimes when they get itn a bad mood it shows.

btw ur right there is no "girl code" its more like guidelines anyways:)