Girl Problem?
So I want to hang out with my ex, build up some kino, and make it comfortable for us to hang out together (and maybe take things farther). I want to invite her to go with me somewhere I had already planned on going (that way it doesn't seem like Im trying to get exclusive with her or anything). And ideas on where to go/what to do?
Note that we ended on good terms.
Also, letting her come to me is good, but Im afraid that if I do that she'll never do it (she can be kinda shy).
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Okay, this I don't get. If she is an ex but you don't want to "get exclusive with her or anything", then why put forth the effort?
I mean, if you want to hang out with her, get comfy, take things further, what are you hoping to have happen? Wake up the next morning and say "Thank you, ma'am" and be on your merry way?
Why pursue her if you don't want to get back together? It doesn't make any sense. You'd be risking the ending on good terms status just to end it all over again, possibly worse this time?
Please stop and reconsider. If you both want a booty call, hey, have a great time. But pour on the romance and say "psyche!" and you'll be in a heap o' trouble!
If you decide you'd like to have her back after all, don't risk playing stupid games. Just ask her out to dinner and give her some flowers.
But be warned that if you treat her like a conquest it will backfire. Guys get reps, too, and all they wind up with are thieving, cheating skanks because no decent girl will date them.
anything more than a fishing trip or hiking would mean you were trying to be exclusive. be more on the level of just telling her you want to take her away for a week or weekend and let her choose the place. or take her somwhere that has a natural beauty to it. (state park, museum,) something that will show her a more unique side of you , an unusual quality , creativeness. you can plan the "perfect " getaway if you put your mind and heart into it! WHATEVER YOU DO YOU WANT TO REACH HER HEART!
Explain to her what you want. How you really enjoy her company. Watch Romantic movies like up close and personal and pretty woman. Tell her how you feel and cry, cry women like it when men cry. Show her your soft side but also be strong and tell her you will protect her. All women want is for a man who can protect them and shield them from pain and love them for who they are, etc. Go to her and be her man in shining armor.
Good luck.