Ok, so there is this girl at school, and I am going into 8th grade. My locker was right next to her last year and I was in her homeroom. She is kind of the girl that everybody hates *secretly*. She is SOO mean. examples:pulls towels down in gym locker roomsays 'OMG IM SO FAT!!!!!! [she is extremely skinny] infront of the largest girl in the grade purposfully'- flirts with other peoples boyfriends- she'll start a convo about why she h8s you and when a cute guy walks up she will be like 'why are you even talking to me?!' and give the guy wierd looks about the girlher friends even tells me that they h8 her. so my question is HOW DO I STAND HER?!!! i need revenge and i CAN NOT ingore this for the 3 year in a row and let her trample other people. ive tried soooooooo hard to be nice but she just naturally h8s people!!i neeed advice!!Update:lol and plus we both go to a strict christian school and ANYTHING [aka calling her a *****] will get around to the dean and i can get expelled [ it has happend to a girl] just for calling someone stuck up. Created by samantha. family-relationships-en - friends-en

girl problem?????????????!!!!!!!!!?

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girl problem?????????????!!!!!!!!!?

Ok, so there is this girl at school, and I am going into 8th grade. My locker was right next to her last year and I was in her homeroom. She is kind of the girl that everybody hates *secretly*. She is SOO mean.

examples:

pulls towels down in gym locker room

says 'OMG IM SO FAT!!!!!! [she is extremely skinny] infront of the largest girl in the grade purposfully'

- flirts with other peoples boyfriends

- she'll start a convo about why she h8s you and when a cute guy walks up she will be like 'why are you even talking to me?!' and give the guy wierd looks about the girl

her friends even tells me that they h8 her.

so my question is HOW DO I STAND HER?!!! i need revenge and i CAN NOT ingore this for the 3 year in a row and let her trample other people. ive tried soooooooo hard to be nice but she just naturally h8s people!!

i neeed advice!!

Update:

lol and plus we both go to a strict christian school and ANYTHING [aka calling her a *****] will get around to the dean and i can get expelled [ it has happend to a girl] just for calling someone stuck up

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pinkempyreal

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.You should just smile at the fact that when she grows up she will probably be working at McDonald's, she actually will be FAT, and she will probably have no friends. If that idea isn't enough for you, just ignore her completely. When she makes fun of you, laugh as hard as you can, and walk away. If it weren't her, there would be someone else to take her place. That's how school is, and will always be, unfortunately. Sorry you have to deal with someone like that, but it's life.

Anonymous

You should simply talk to her. Get to know her on a personal level. There is a deeper reason for her immaturity. If she has the urge to treat people this way, there's usually an underlying reason. She has ulterior motives for hating every girl, most likely because she feels insecure with herself. She may have family issues that people are unaware of. By making the effort to forgive her, and really try to get her to open up, you're giving her more options, rather than just making her jealous.

that ttly suks im so srry. we did this thing for revenge against a girl just like that. idk if this will help but around Valentine's day she wrote this guy a love note and stupid her signed her initials, anyway it was around Valentine's day so we decided to write a fake love note to her from that guy. we of course we got his permission and his girlfriends lol. so we wrote a phony love letter to her and had his gf rewrite it bcuz she knew his handwriting. we put it in her locker then we asked the guy to deny the letter and be like he didn't have any idea about it. she was so humiliated. i hope i helped.