Girl problems help!!?
Hi, I'm 13 and I like this girl who is also 13. She was in my class last year and we were friends and i had a crush on her and I still really like her this year. I asked her out like a few months ago but she said no and I can't really get over her :/. Should i ask her out again one more time or not or is there another choice to get her to like me? (I want an option other than there are a lot of fish in the sea or like move on because I've tried that but failed :/)
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Aww :3 Well first that's so cute and secondly I am 19 so I have some experience with this kind of stuff. Well I guess if you asked her once and she said no I don't think that her mind is going to change. And you can't make a person like you, it's either they do or they don't. There's no inbetween. The only option would be to get to know her even better. Be friends longer and then maybe ask her again when you know it's the right time. I hope this helped :)
Well, don't ask her again, or at least not right away!!
You should wait it out, and become a closer friend with her. The whole "Friend Zone" that boys assumes every girls have doesn't really exist. Don't become a super close friend who follows her around everywhere and gossips with her, but its awesome to be the friend she talks to about just.. stuff. Everyday events in life. Maybe eventually greet her with a hug?
This sounds like it would take a while, but it'll go faster than you'd think. Eventually she will realize how awesome you are, and I do believe you will probably just.. know when this happens.
Jenny Wren, you're silly. Dontcha know that when that happens, we/they eventually just shake it off and live in the now moment? We're all young. We may feel like that sometimes, but it goes away because we're kinda dumb and easily distracted. >.> Unfortunately.
I'm your age too and this exact same thing happened to me. Just start talking to her more often then usual (but dn't seem like a creap), become a good friend of hers, but always stop talking to her for no reason saying ur busy too that way she'll know you have a life BUT this always works on like facebook or txting not in person. and just let things happen that way after a while ask her to go to the movies with you and some friends and tell her she can bring friends too... :) thats what i would do
I'm a girl around your age, and when a girl says no she usually just doesn't like you. Don't ask her out again. Try to find out who she likes, maybe a friend will help you, but I would say just move on.
Maybe she said no because she's aware of the fact that your both thirteen. You've got all of high school to worry about girls, don't waist the last years of your childhood on trying to be someones boyfriend.
She is probably still not interested in you this year, but if you really want to know, ask her in a subtle way. For example, "No pressure, but I was just wondering if you are still not interested in going out with me."