We're both 15. We have gone out for 4 months. And I recently broke up with her a couple of days ago. She still texts me and flirts with me. She always asks me if I wanna get back together but I have no feelings for her. What should I say to her to make her stop bothering me? Thanks everyone and I'll answer back if you want me to:)
Copyright © 2024 Q2A.ES - All rights reserved.
Answers & Comments
Be completely honest with her but do it in a nice way. Think about how much it would hurt if you were in her position, still liking her when shes over you. Tell her that you think of her as a friend and are sorry but it willl never work out like that. It will hurt her at first but as long as you are mature about it she will be happy you told her the truth in the first place instead of leading her on when you know there is nothing there
You have past the toughest part of being a man. Breaking up with a girl that likes you..Ugh it hurts to think about...
Anyhow, these are just things that came to my head. Don't take them as if I know everything of what I am saying, these are just kind of ideas. Lines and attitude and such.
Tbh in a week or 2 or a month it will stop by itself. Just don't be harsh to her, because when she is over it, she will say good things about you.
1. Tell her when she asks, that you don't want to get back together and you can't see yourself being anything but friends. When she text you or calls you as a friend, tell her you are preoccupied with something else and that you can't give her that attention like you did when you were going out.
Tell her you think she is a wonderful person and pretty, but not the kind for you. Don't tell her you have no feelings for her, she will figure that out you don't need to be harsh about it.
2. Tell her, truth or lie, that you are interested in someone else and that you don't regret the time you spent with her and you had fun but its over and you have moved on. If she asks about who this person is, tell her is this girl you met at the mall or whatever then either make it up or whatever. You don't want it to be someone she can see or contact and go crazy towards nor do you want to get caught lying cause that might hurt.....
3. I am 15, I do not want to be in a relationship, I want to be stupid with my friends and I am selfish and don't want to be tied down(whether you believe your selfish or not just say it for her sake). We can be friends but that is it, we cannot get back together because I don't want to. As lovely and as sweet (or w/e) that you are, we cannot be together, you don't know me like you think you don't.....As every thing you say might be followed up with a why or question, just say don't worry about it and eventually hang up on her.
4. I broke up with you and I have my reasons. I see that you are strong respectable person if you can just accept the break up and move on. The fact that I know you accept the break up and move on without me makes me like you more and almost not want to break up with you. That kind of attitude will make any man want you, even me but we are not getting back together because its not what I want respect that.
Just be nice about it, say you broke up with her for a reason that theres no chance of you getting back together that there is other guys out there and u can be friends(if you wont).
Next time she asks, Just tell her
(her name here), would you please stop asking.
I know you didn't want to brake up, but I just wasn't working for me anymore
Sorry but, the answer is now, and will always be
No.
You should use her name in the beginning so it will feel a little more direct and personal
Hope it works out :)
You seriously need to be straight foward with her! Tell her that you don't want her back, that you broke up for a reason! It may sound mean or harsh but thats what she needs to hear to be able to let you go! Hope I helped!:) Good Luck;)
I would just explain to her clearly (but nicely) that you are no longer interested in dating her.. tell her how great she is and that dating is out of the question but u can still be friends (don't say those exact words as they seem cheesy hahah)
PLEASE answer mine
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AiPCP...