ok..so I met this girl about 3 months ago and I'm 99.9% sure she likes me....and I want to tell her that...but some people say I should just wait...and some say to go ahead and tell her...what should I do
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Don't listen to other people. It's too soon to be worrying about how to express your feelings. If you and she haven't spent much time together - as friends or as dates - then you need to get a bit further along with the relationship. That means get to know her on a very casual basis. Do you two have anything in common? School work, activities such as bowling, biking, hiking, etc.? Even if you don't know much about her likes and dislikes, start a conversation with her, preferably about something you have in common (for instance, school work, teachers, hobbies, etc). If you feel like you and she are getting along okay, ask her about doing something on the weekend, such as biking or hiking (or whatever else you find in common). Also, you need to be aware of HER comments, body language, small talk; you can tell if she's interested. Bottom line: take things slowly and don't worry about what to say to her; be yourself and enjoy being with her until you know her better and feel confident enough to tell her about your feelings. (The more you get to know her, the more you'll discover just how much you like her - you may be disappointed! Sorry - but it's best to recognize now that you need to go with real life, not fantasy.)
First of all, you might need to tell us a bit more about this girl for us to give you a solid answer. (: Have you ever talked to her? Does she know you exist? If so, then I would flirt a little more obviously and see if she flirts back, or backs away a little. If she doesn't respond at all, then she's either not used to being around guys or she isn't interested. If you watch her body language and how she reacts to your flirting, then you can save yourself from rejection later. If your really 99.9% sure, then go ahead! Really, the worst that could happen would be a no, and if she's sensible then this shouldn't change anything between you two.
Oh, and one more thing, don't tell her you like her, ask her out. It's less awkward. Trust me.
You're the guy so you should be the one to tell her that you like her. But you can't just tell her upfront cause that might scare her off. The best that you can do is to ask her out to test the waters. If she says yes then that means that she's interested. If after a couple of days you ask her out again and she agrees to do so once more then that means she likes you. As for telling her that you like her just drop little hints like 'I like what you're wearing', 'I like your hair', etc. Trust me, just the fact that you asked her out will already tell her that you're interested in her, the compliments are just a nice way to make her like you more as long as you're sincere in what you're saying.
I didn't ask my girlfriend out we were on a trip, and I we were talking then spur of the moment her hand and mine were close and she asked "how big are your hands" (I have fairly small hands), and then we put our hands up to compare, and I took that as a chance to take my and intertwine fingers, and we were holding hands, and our loved worked its way from there... You don't have to read that, but if a chance like that ever comes take it man! If it doesn't come then you should get around to asking her not spur of the moment "WANNA GO OUT!?". You take it slow (not too slow), and show her how much you care about her :)
You should wait and see how your relationship goes soo far. Then you can decide to tell her. The best time would be when u think u have become closer "friends" and have stronger feelings for eachother.
best of luck-Lily b
Don't tell her, just ask her out on a date. That .1% is fear of rejection, the 99.9% confirms you won't get it.
I think you should just be bold and tell her how you feel. Especially if you think she likes you. It seems scary now, but if you tell her you'll get everything you've wanted. It's intimidating for 5 minutes and great for a long time. :)
You shouldn't just come right out and say "i like you" beat around the bush a little bit with her, come at her gently with it, just in-case the feelings aren't mutual but i bet they are, just be careful, if there not mutual you could scare her away!
goodluck! xoxoxo
you may as well go on ahead and tell her. i mean you 99.9% sure. you have nothing to lose :D good luck x
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Go and tell her you like her....before someone else does