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Just bring her around your parents as a friend for a while and after they get used to a girl around they will start to like her ( as long as she is respectful. ) Then you can approach them and just be truthful about how you feel. Also be willing to date her on their terms since they will be compromising to let you date. Hope it goes well!

Good grief, Charlie Brown! You are in no different situation as other ones your age. Parents aren't stupid, they find out. So why make it a secret. If you like the poor girl, be proud, and don't hide. Your parents are probably interested in seeing you stay focused on being a kid and doing the school thing. Talking to your parents it the best way of getting them to see your side.

um, just when you go out w/ her use your friends or a after school activity as an ecuse to hang out w/ her.

don't stay on the phone for to long and same with the computer. just make sure you have pictures as proof. so take a picture of you and your friends or of a place that your 'friends' went to. she'll trust you if you are willing to show her.

I mean it'll be okay to tell your mom you have a GF

I mean she'll find out eventualy.

and if she finds out....

what is she going to do?

ground you? tell her you're a love struck boy and let her know all the 'pain' that you'll go though if you can't see her.

ask her if she ever felt this way!

lolol, she'll totally let you.

butjust be careful okay?

she doesn't want you to have a GF for a reason.

why don't you ask?

Well your parents probably don't want you taking her on dates, or hanging out one on one outside of school. I'd talk to your parents and see how they're feel about you having a girlfriend, but them being able to keep an eye on you.

You could just tell them the truth...if only parents understood the real world...

I think considering your age, you (hopefully) won't be doing too much with your girlfriend anyway, so I think just "go-out" together but tell your parents you're just friends. Also, try not to tell anyone at school. Remember that gossip spreads quickly.

last year i went through the same thing. its not that myy parents didnt want me to have a boyfriend i just didnt wanna have to talk about it with myy mom and dad. and my boyyfriends dad knew myy dad and mom. and my mom is really awkward to talk about guyys.i told her one time and she was like omg tell me all abou tit. i didnt. but even when i did have a boyfriend she never found out. she prob. had hints bc. whenever i went on messenger or myspace i would minimize it. so i think she got the pic. and when ever we talked about them i would turn red. so as long as you can keep it from your parents. and tryy not to talk on th ephone too much or on the computer. or if u go on date. just like go to the movies after school with a group of friends

my ex gf had to keep our thing secret too, just anybody that has contact with ure parents like close friends, say make sure u dont bring it up around my parents... and secondly, dont make it obvious... the only problem that i had was... how do u get her a gift? girls just say "o ya im getting it for zoey..." guys dont just say o ya.. im getting a box of chocolates and flowers for jim...." now do they?

well go on dates that are in walking distance from the school and have her parents pick her up afterwards unless your school has a late bus and just don't talk on the phone with her while your parents are around i've been with this guy for 6 months now and my parents still don't have a clue and niether do his.... good luck

There is no reason guys and dolls cant be friends. Start out as her friend, bring her around like your guy friends. eventually your parents will get used to having her around and you can move it into girlfriend territory.

well u guys can hang out, but just dont tell your parents that shes your gf, just say you guys are friends, and dont flirt with each other when your parents are around, try to like do normal stuff, like video games or watch movies and stuff