Ok so there's this girl I like, and I've liked her on and off for a few months. I asked her on a date, not to be my girlfriend, just a date; she said she would have to think about it (I knew right then it was no). A few days later I get a text saying no and that she was flattered, but didn't have the same feelings. It's been about 2-3 weeks, and I've still been talking with her and were still doing okay as friends. I just still have feelings for her and really don't want to give up...any suggestions?. Created by J. family-relationships-en - singles-dating-en

Girl probs please help?

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Girl probs please help?

Ok so there's this girl I like, and I've liked her on and off for a few months. I asked her on a date, not to be my girlfriend, just a date; she said she would have to think about it (I knew right then it was no). A few days later I get a text saying no and that she was flattered, but didn't have the same feelings. It's been about 2-3 weeks, and I've still been talking with her and were still doing okay as friends. I just still have feelings for her and really don't want to give up...any suggestions?

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Anonymous

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Friendships can lead to love....

Be her friend be funny

Find similarities

Dont make your feelings obvious

Slowly she might just fall for u ... Only time will tell

REMEMBER:

God created everyone in pairs for love.

All u need to do is find them

Someone out there is for u

The road might be rough with heart breaks but it will be worth it

cmmommy

don't pressure her. just be her friend as long as you can handle taking a step back. she's obviously comfortable enough to let you know exactly how she feels and thinks it's ok to still be your friend. find comfort in the fact that you have an honest friend who values you in that way. but if you just can't handle "just a friend"......show her the same respect and let her know why you may need a little space.

Vikings

I think you should distance yourself and start looking for another girl. When she sees you with another girl she might get jealous.

Just let her go, move on and get another chick. When this girl sees you with this new chick. She'll want you. (assuming she isn't in another relationship)