given up babies??????????????
I cant understand why there are so many people out there having abortions, or killing there babies or living them on the side or the road and things I think it is so crazy these people could just have the baby and not worry about what it makes your body look like and then give it up for adoption. I am 29 now I have 2 kids I did want more until when I was 21 I had to have a full hysterectomy and know one knows what its like to want more kids and cant have them because I had cancer. So I dont understand why people do this can anyone answer this question?
Update:I am not asking for anyone to give me there baby I am just asking a question and people have to look at it from my point of view
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You want more kids but can't have them; obviously, it's hard to imagine someone giving up something you want so badly.
But for the women who have abortions or give up their children (whether through adoption or dropping them off at safe haven locations, etc.), they desperately do not want children or to be pregnant.
You have to put yourself in their shoes, imagine what it's like to be in their situation. And yeah, sometimes that's hard, but it's crucial to our understanding one another.
I don't understand it either. I have 2 wonderful kids, my first was a surprise. We were nervous and young but never once did abortion come up. Adoption is such an amazing option. There are so many children that needs homes and so many adults who would give anything for a child. I guess I'm not really answering your question, more like agreeing with you. I understand not everyone should be a parent but I don't understand killing a life that could some day potentially cure cancer, or be a president, ect.
A) Not a baby or a person until delivery.
B) Not all pregnancies will result in a living person.
C) No way in f-ing hell I would ever ever give up a child of my own to anyone else in the world.
D) No violent man should ever ever be allowed to reproduce, we women have got to stop them from reproducing.
Your body is your issue, my body is mine and I have not only full rights but full say what happens with it - stay off my body!
Because the drive to NOT have a child, when you don't want one, is as strong as the drive to have a child, when you want one. So as much as you want a child now, they want to not have a child at that point in their lives, even though at another point in their lives they will want a child just as much as you want one now. Wondering why they feel like that is like wondering why a woman doesn't want to be raped, when sex is so much fun. The point is that as much as someone might want to have sex with X person, they want even more not to have sex with Y person.