Guy problems~?
Am 17 yrs old and I have dated many guys and have had 2 failed relationships the guys that I have dated were all hispanic (Puerto Ricans) am not attracted to black guys just hispanics and I feel as if all the hispanics guys that I have dated were either scared of what other people might, or turn out to be gay, or have cheated on me. Is it me or is it the guys that am dating that turn out to be wrong for me?? or am i suppose to be with a black guy even through am not attracted to black guys??
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Skin color has nothing to do with it.
Take a look at what it is about you that draws these characters into your life. If you keep finding yourself in the same sorts of relationships, you have a part in creating that. The good news: you are in complete control of you. Change yourself and you will change your relationships.
And - keep trying. Keep track of what works and what doesn't (how you were feeling, what kind of relationship you got).
All I have to say is don't trust any man. You have to understand that men don't think like women. It's like night and day. When a woman says I love you in a relationship she means it. When a guys say it, don't believe it. When a man really loves you he has to show it. Actions speak loader than words. Women show in the start of a relationship. It takes a man a long time to even say I love you or that he likes you unless you remind him-which all you women do. At your age you should get your education then when you become successful you will not be able to control all of them. There is so much out there that you have not seen yet. It is a big world . What you are going through is poppy love. We go through it when we are young. When you are an adult you will think totally different. One more thing, men can not and will never stick to one woman. They all want to be every race that they can in woman. That why you always catch them cheating. When a woman becomes bad as people call them, it's because their boyfriend or husband made like that. (GOD) made woman to think of one husband and children. And to one get married. Woman just want to be loved by their spouse. Just remember Education is Power.
Well it's not wrong to not be attractive to black guys, but you should try something new. And it's not you that doesn't do well with dating Hispanics, it's just the way guys are. Remember, guys are....God knows what they are. lol. Just try new things. It worked out for me.. Well, Good luck!!
well it's definety not your fault you cannot make people gay or make them scared. that would be the guys fault. and on your question if you should be with a black guy my answer is what ever your attracted to most people have a very hard time finding that right person. just keep looking for that right person that makes you feel great
You my dear have serious issues....You should be with who your heart tells you to be with. Do you have a heart. Same Race do not guarantee good relationships. If you are prejudice against a race, then clear that with GOD....Your problem is in your first line of your statement; "YOU HAVE DATED MANY GUYS" Guys talk and you must be the talk of the neighborhood. That's the real problem, you are USED GOODS. SORRY
I think you should take time and think about what you're saying. Ask yourself, "Why do I hate my own people?" Once you answer that question, you might realize that Latinos and others are turned off by the fact that you hate yourself.
i think u should just try to date all different types of guy then u can know about them.
the problems you cite aren't race-specific.
Chances are - you are the problem. What are your expectations in a relationship - what do you bring to the table and what do you expect. Are you possessive, "easy", emotional?