Guy Problems?
ok well there's this guy at school he's all mean to me and kicking my chair and making jokes about me and everything in class because he sits next to me.but he's so ******* anoyying but a wierd thing is that today in the afternoon i wa cold in class and im like damn im cold but im to lazy to go get my sweater so he went and got it without me asking him and hes all like mean to me at the same time. And i keep thinking about him but i hate him now im cofused i cant tell this to my friends because they all hate him and he is short . what should i do also i laugh at his jokes plz help
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This boy likes you, but he teases you to show that he likes you. Like girls do when they are in junior high, but they mature faster than boys. Tell him you don't like it when he teases you but get him his sweater. Also tell him how nice it was when he got you your sweater. He'll appreciate it.
If he's short and people tease him about it, he may stay on the offensive all the time. If you like the guy, even if it's just as a friend, just tell him the next time he's mean, (not in front of others in case he's really a jerk), "you know, we could probably be friends if you weren't so mean to me most of the time. Can we just like talk or something sometime without all this dissing goin on?" He may not respond the right way right then, but check out his behavior over the next few days and see if it changes towards you. He might just be sweet on you and is so afraid of rejection that he doesn't know how to go about telling you. Or he might be a total jerk that thinks you're a dweeb and gets his kicks out of picking on you.
Do you like him?
If so, go for it! His height and what your friends think shouldn't matter very much if he's someone you really care about. Let things proceed as usual.
If not, just ignore him. He likes you. If you yell at him, he thinks you like him back. (I know. Been there.) Don't respond and QUIT LAUGHING AT THE JOKES!
If you're not sure, see how the year pans out...just be calm and collected, don't do anything rash, and treat him with the same respect you treat everyone else. To an extent.
When he does something annoying, say "dude. That's not cool"
And when he does nice say "Thanks"
Maybe he wants to be nice but he is defensive cuz he knows everyone hates him. So you should be as nice as you can without letting him abuse you at all.
You know he could still get a lot taller. Guys can grow until they are 20 or older.
The boy likes you get the big picture he is just hiding it from you ignore him for a day or two see what happens
maybe he picks on you because he likes you do you like him? Some times when guys pick at girls they have a crush on them and that is the only way they know how to act.
depending on your age just go with the flow .guys are funny creatures and they say women are hard to figure out just play it by ear and dont fall into peer pressure it's a *****/
the guy likes you. he's acting so immature cause that's what guys like me and others are, and he's trying to hide his crush on you. he's probably just too hy to tell you he likes you.
Hay! it's a guy thing, that's what guys do whenever they like a girl.
they agrveat them. because they want to talk to them. TRUST ME HE LIKE'S YOU.
theres about an 85% chance that he likes you