Help please girl problems!!!?
I know i asked this already but im not sure.I liked this girl since last year (now junior)and the first day of school when i was standing in line for lunch, i saw her and shes way prettier than last year and im ugly. So when i saw her i froze and got a horrible pain in stomach like never before. And i was trying my best to be normal but my legs were shaking so much i was going to collapse.(not faint) people say shes nice but i couldnt confront. I left the line because i couldnt stand. what shoulf i do?
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Does she even know you? If she doesn't, try to be friends with her, dont push things too fast, or she will think you are a creeper, just see her as a friend at first, then once you are confident that you guys are close, ask her out. If she is you friend already, just kick some courage and ASK HER OUT. No pressure. #1 rule: Dont be a creeper. GET TO KNOW HER BETTER AND BE HER FRIEND! :)
I would talk to your doctor about anti-anxiety medication because honestly, if you aren't exaggerating, it sounds like you had a minor panic attack. If this isn't a good route for you, I would suggest re-examing this girl. Sit down and realize that she is a human being just like the rest of us. She has flaws and faults along with all of those good qualities. You need to remember that she is just a person and that you are a person too. Stop being so down on yourself. I'm sure you aren't that ugly. Most kids go through an awkward stage in high school anyway, and chances are that this girl is really self conscious and doesn't even know that she's as pretty as you think she is. Chill out. Take a couple deep breaths. You need to talk to her. You'll probably realize within a couple of minutes of talking to her that she is more like you than you would imagine. She has insecurities and problems of her own. She isn't perfect, so there's no reason for you to be that nervous around her. If you aren't ready for face to face conversations, try Facebooking her. I'm sure that'll help. Good luck!
Whoa. Sounds like you were struck by Cupid! You should talk to her. And if she acts snobby, then don't chase her because she wouldn't be worth it. Now if she's nice to you, take it slow at first and just be her friend. And after a few months of getting to know her, then ask her out. Again, take it steady and get to know her. Stay golden. ;D
Talk to her. And it sounds like you may have anxiety problems, I have the same issues, so I'd recommend getting some meds for anxiety (:
Don't worry. If the girl is worth it then she'll like you because of your personality and not your looks. And I'm sure you're not ugly.
good luck (: