How can I accept women's existence ?

May 2021 8 19 Report

How can I accept women's existence ?

Deep in my mind, I am unable to understand and accept the women and their existence around me. I have a deep seated sense of discomfort and fear being around with women. Please don't get mad at me but this is how I feel. It's not that I feel cold or xenophobic about women, but I just cannot grasp their identity and existence - and I cannot comprehend what ARE they, and what is their relationship with men? I feel very surprised whenever I see a woman being nice to men, and sometimes I feel she must be waiting for the right time to pull off her trick to destroy this man. I also have a dislike for my mother and severe dislike for my sisters. Am I gynophobic, if yes WHY?

Update:

@Sara, no I don't accept your answer.

Social Science / Gender Studies

Verified answer

Sounds like it. Women are just like any other creature. They have a purpose on this earth, not to "destroy men" or what ever nonsense you speak of, but they are simply here to live life just like anyone else. Women are also here to reproduce. They are not evil. and though some women may be very emotional, they may come off as "crazy", and that might be where you think they destroy men.. but hey, every human has feelings and what they feel they can't help.

Another thing - your post is real proof why women and men don't always get along. Its like people don't understand equality at all.

"You're a man? What are you and why are you here?? Are you going to destroy the world???? What the hell are you doing here"

Imagine if a girl asked you this. what would you answer?

What ARE we, you ask? Human. just like any one else.

Kyle S

Get over yourself

Try and consider for a moment all of those people in the world who are born into a sex and, truly and genuinely, feel that they were born into the wrong body.

Or the people who are born with a set of both male and female genitalia. Do you think there's such a cleavage between men and women for these people?

Women are living things, like men, though primarily estrogen-based, as oppose to testosterone. You can't comprehend what women "are" because you have a severe distrust of them.

Why that is, obviously no stranger to you can answer that, I don't know what your life story is or what the relationship you have with your mother and sisters is coming from. That's something you have to discover about yourself through honest self-reflection. We can guess why you hate women, but we can't tell you with any satisfactory certainty.