Being predictable can be good, such as if someone asks you a question, they know they'll always get the truth, even if it hurts. Many people think that if you're predictable, you're boring. That may be true if you always wear beige on Wednesdays. But, if someone wants you to do something that goes against your moral code, and they try to make you feel bad about it by saying "you're predictable", then you need to consider why would someone want you to feel bad about how you feel? You see what I'm getting at. Maybe you should give us some situations where you feel you're predictable, and see what happens then. With a few examples, we'd be able to see what you're talking about. So, what makes you so predictable that you want to become less predictable? Personally, there's certain parts of my personality that I want to be predictable. People will always know better than to ask me to do something if they know how I'll react to a certain situation. No one asks me to go out stealing Christmas trees (yes, that happened once!). So, it can be a good thing. That's my thoughts. And if you're a teen, don't worry about it. Just be yourself. If "they" don't like it, it's their loss. <*)))><
Your first step would be to observe unpredictable forces in nature.
Your second step is in realising that most forces in nature are totally predictable.
Thirdly, realise that one force that is not predictable, is Life.
So how can life, with it's great plethora of possibilities, be emulated into a body language and mental pattern that would emphasis this unpredictability?
Easily.
You have the full range of human emotions, and all the emotions that animals feel (terror, ambition, determination perhaps), never forget this.
Do you think you are boring this way? Because actually the definition of trustworthiness is predictability...do you want to be a trustworthy individual?
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Being predictable can be good, such as if someone asks you a question, they know they'll always get the truth, even if it hurts. Many people think that if you're predictable, you're boring. That may be true if you always wear beige on Wednesdays. But, if someone wants you to do something that goes against your moral code, and they try to make you feel bad about it by saying "you're predictable", then you need to consider why would someone want you to feel bad about how you feel? You see what I'm getting at. Maybe you should give us some situations where you feel you're predictable, and see what happens then. With a few examples, we'd be able to see what you're talking about. So, what makes you so predictable that you want to become less predictable? Personally, there's certain parts of my personality that I want to be predictable. People will always know better than to ask me to do something if they know how I'll react to a certain situation. No one asks me to go out stealing Christmas trees (yes, that happened once!). So, it can be a good thing. That's my thoughts. And if you're a teen, don't worry about it. Just be yourself. If "they" don't like it, it's their loss. <*)))><
Your first step would be to observe unpredictable forces in nature.
Your second step is in realising that most forces in nature are totally predictable.
Thirdly, realise that one force that is not predictable, is Life.
So how can life, with it's great plethora of possibilities, be emulated into a body language and mental pattern that would emphasis this unpredictability?
Easily.
You have the full range of human emotions, and all the emotions that animals feel (terror, ambition, determination perhaps), never forget this.
Your emotions don't make you predictable.
Do you think you are boring this way? Because actually the definition of trustworthiness is predictability...do you want to be a trustworthy individual?
Mel
be spontaneous. Do random things at random times, and invite your friends along. That will change things around.
Just act on impact! Nothing too irrational, but just do what you feel like doing, right then right now!
You can start by knowing yourself more.
lie...or dont talk or....find a new personality