How can I impress a girl who has a superb musical talent?
Chivalry is in her blood, though she is not a man, and she is an intellectual, such as I. She is showing signs which I perceive as actions that show that there is an attraction occurring. Someone please help. If it would be helpful, she is Chinese but is very fluent in English and Mandarin.
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Concentrate on the fact that she's a lovely human being, not just her musical talent. Although people with special talents like to be recognized and admired for their accomplishments (who doesn't?), they don't want their significant other to love them mainly for that talent.
By the way, you are intelligent, so you are very talented too!
She probably wants you to make a move so don't put too much focus on her musical talent. Let her know that you're aware of it at some point, but put the focus on her as a person. She'll probably melt in your arms once she sees you want to get to know the real her.
Write her a song. If she truly understands music, she'll be very impressed with you no matter how bad the song comes out. People that know music know how much creativity and effort go into song writing.
this might sound weird, but being a musician, the thing i love most about my wife, is that she doesn't give a crap about my musical talent. i even met her at a concert i was playing at, and she still was only interested in me cause of who i was, not what i could do.
so get to know her! and don't focus on the outside appearance
compliments probably all sound alike to her by now anyways :P
impress her by wanting to know MORE about her, not by being all perfect and whatnot :P
trying too hard NEVER works out well XD
By listening to her. If a girl can know she's impressing you, she's impressed. Kinda like how they love talking about themselves. Just let it happen. lol. If you can listen to her music, and not just try to impress her all the time, I'm sure she's be more than happy with you. =)
have fun with her, by this i mean, take time doing things she likes to do and get to spend more time with her, like going to places. Making someone laugh is a nice way to show them that your not a total a hole and a funny understanding person, just dont go overboard annoying her.
You don't need to impress another person to get there attention.
Being yourself and asking her about her intentions is the best thing you can do.
write her a song and you both work on it