You meet a woman you find physically attractive and on the same level of intellect as you. You go out on a few dates together and find that you are also sexually drawn to her. In other words you want to "know her." So, you invite her to share a night together. Her place or yours. After you get the "First Time" out of the way, You should know if SHE was satisfied and if YOU satisfied HER. If the satisfaction was NOT mutual, then there can be no relationship. It won't work. It won't last long either.
If you both got equal or great satisfaction, then you will know that you have a real chance at a permanent relationship. You just need to Iron out the details of Children, Families, Religion, Income, Home, etc.....
Girls can feel used if you do it early in the relationship. Then that's all you want, sex, sex, sex. And boom, you're fighting more and you jump out of a moving vehicle so you don't have to hear her cry one more time for that ONE thing you didn't do for her.
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One is a mere "need" and the other one is an emotion. These are two very separate and different things.
One can be done just as easily as, say, the need to eat. The other is far more complex to human nature.
It does NOT. Here is why.
You meet a woman you find physically attractive and on the same level of intellect as you. You go out on a few dates together and find that you are also sexually drawn to her. In other words you want to "know her." So, you invite her to share a night together. Her place or yours. After you get the "First Time" out of the way, You should know if SHE was satisfied and if YOU satisfied HER. If the satisfaction was NOT mutual, then there can be no relationship. It won't work. It won't last long either.
If you both got equal or great satisfaction, then you will know that you have a real chance at a permanent relationship. You just need to Iron out the details of Children, Families, Religion, Income, Home, etc.....
Marriage is not something to be taken lightly.
It doesn't. Like someone already said, if it's true love then sex is just an expression of that love.
Girls can feel used if you do it early in the relationship. Then that's all you want, sex, sex, sex. And boom, you're fighting more and you jump out of a moving vehicle so you don't have to hear her cry one more time for that ONE thing you didn't do for her.
It doesn't if your love is true
It doesnt it just makes it more intimate.