How on earth do i deal with racist judemental parents?

my parents are so ignorant and disrespectful...its horrible....i just cant take it anymore. all my life, they have judged EVERY single person ive been friends with, dated, worked with, etc. in high school, one of my best friends was black. they wouldnt allow her over the house. i used to almost be in tears over my frustration with this. some of my other friends, they would dislike them and judge them if their parents were divorced, saying "they some from a bad family! so that means theyre bad! stay away from them!". they also would look down on people who dont have a lot of money. if i had a friend who lived in an apartment instead of a big house, they would make fun of them.

Now, i am almost 22, and still dealing with this. Ive been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. and i can say this honestly- we have never fought and disrespected each other. we are both loving and caring to eachother, and no one has ever made me as happy as he has. my parents told me if i ever try to marry him, they will kill him. they refuse to meet his family. why? because they are not italian like us. they told me if i dont start dating an italian, they will never speak to me again. they also say "your man is a piece of s***. he doesnt come from money, his family is pathetic" what kind of thing is this to say????

i am so upset about how they are, i dont know what to do. should i never talk to them? should i leave the state and just pretend im not their daughter?

Update:

i just wanted to add i am very good to my parents...respectful...i take care of my younger brother and sister and do a lot for the family....already my 12 year old sister has come crying to me that our parents are talking badly about her friends at school. its horrible...

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