How To Establish.....?
a opinion and position in a family. My boyfriend's family is very nice, but I feel lost in my position in the family. My boyfriend and I are playing on getting married. I feel like I haven't established a voice in the family and I'm too easy going. I fearful that my politeness will result in them walking all over me, when it comes to making big decisions.
I want to be nice and friendly, but I want to establish a position/personality within the family dynamic.
How do I do this?
Update:sorry, playing SHOULD be planning. Don't know how I wrote that?
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This is a very gradual thing. As you get officially engaged, you will start to become "part of the family". It's important to get along with the in-laws because they will be relatives forever. However, if they are stepping all over you, it's up to your fiance to talk to them and defend you.
sorry, but i don't think you have a voice or position in this family....you might influence your husband-to-be's opinion but that's all....
be yourself and let like you for you then when they do something or something happens that you don't like you let them know right away not small things but actuall problems resolve them and be loved by all