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I am really sorry that you have lost all of your loved ones. It's OK to feel grief and go through that. It's normal. The only answer that I have for you is that you should turn to God. There is miraculous healing that can come through faith in Jesus Christ and his atonement. He suffered your heartache and knows how to help you find life, light, and happiness.

Some of the answers given show that there are people out there in a much worse state than you are Rhonda. One of them has been reported as clear abuse. How can you feel alive again? That is a difficult question to answer. First you need to put into perspective the issues which lead you to feel this way. We all have bad experiences in life. Perhaps you are still too young to be able to put these down to experience. Consider some of the positive aspects of your life, past and present. Try to change your mindset and concentrate on what is right for you, now and in the future. Set yourself some goals, slowly at first, start to achieve each of them. In time, you will learn to take the good with the bad and not to let the bad get you down quite so much. If you are unable to make yourself feel better, speak to your doctor or a trusted person and share how you are feeling. There are support services out there in your own area (try Google) to get a bit of moral support while you get your mind back into positive mode. Hope this helped a little. Good luck x

Loss is difficult, but time does not stand still,nor does "Life". Like Fall, Winter, Sping and Summer, the landscape is ever changing, as do we. Don't forget the past, but live in the Present and look forward to the future. Be renewed . Make new friends by getting to know "strangers", volunteer for causes that are important and look for the "positive" in people. A smile cost you nothing, and is worthless untill you give it away, to those who see it, it can be priceless and remembered for a Lifetime. Happiness comes from within you know, and everyone knows how great it is to share. Love does not die,and never disappears. Let it shine and know that Life itself is something to Love. You can and WILL Love again. Immediately you need to Love yourself and then share that Love with the rest of us. You will find that there is a lot in Life to Love, and you will find no trouble finding it if you, "live" in the present, look forward to the future and thank your lucky stars that YOU are still here to love and be loved. SMILE. Good luck.

Do you believe in God? A preacher once told me to not grieve for the person I lost but remember and thank God for the time He gave me with him or her. Honestly I've never felt dead inside so I can't tell you how to cure it, but maybe there is a way to awaken your spirits and make yourself happy again. You may meet a new love.

There may be some sort of impurities in the mind, which is not allowing you to generate healthy, pious, noble or constructive thoughts. Flush out all the impurities and put quality manure inside the head so that your mind gets refreshed and recharged. In a refreshed mind you will be able to have pure, fresh, noble, pious, constructive and positive thoughts with a noble vision. There will be a total revival of your mental energy.

Don't give up on love. U need to talk to someone though for now, see a counsler right away...he's a professional. But my opinion is, yeaa think positive. U will get better :)

Go on living with life, enjoy that you are still here to be capable of cherishing all the little things. So dont take it for granted. Go find what truly can make you open your mind artistically, music, painting, dance, etc...

Smoke weed :D