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please listen

you are only 13, you will have problems but one day they will be over. They will not go on forever.

then you will be happy for another 50-70 years, you will have boyfriends, you will have a husband , children, grandchildren one day. you will go for holidays to beaches, mountains, theme parks, etc , you will enjoy music, you will have lots of friends who will like and love you. And you will probably be able to buy your jag one day too.

BTW, I have a real cool convertible, but when i was 13 i never even dreamt that i would have such a cool car and that my life could be so happy

you will be very happy one day, because every person has his good times and bad times. Dont let a little bit of bad time spoil so many beautiful years you will have in future

go to somebody you trust and somebdy you know, maybe a teacher, or maybe a friends mother. They will tell you the same thing

Dont punish yourself for your parent's problems. All i can say is think logically through the walls of pain. Is this just because your parents are getting a divorce? or are there other issues involved? My parents got a divorce when i was 12 and to be honest it didnt effect me at all because i thought that it was their problem and not mine. I new i had nothing to do with it and you should know that too.

And with the cutting, i recommend trying not to use anything that would be made out of metal because that could lead to a a blood infection. It would be best to stop it all together but i know that people going "OMG THATS BAD STOP OMG OMG" dont help at all.. and really dont understand.. well anything lol. Just be careful not to do any permanent damage.

Also remember life is full of challenges. These challenges only make u stronger. It's how we become better people. It's how we learn and grow. I hold my pain with honour knowing what it has made me become.

Hun you need help fast. first you either need to see a councilor so you can be put on medication. or start a natural supplement i recommend 5-HTP. i works great and fast. maybe you can talk to a friend's mom or a friend. cutting is an awful addiction! no matter what anyone says it is. one of my best friend's is a sever cutter and has been in and out of programs for years because of it.

when you feel like cutting you should find something else to do with your hands. try playing a video game, reading a book, writing in a journal, playing with a tennis ball or something with your hands, drawing, going for a walk. i know right now seems like your life is so awful but you NEED to fight through it and find your strength.

physical activity also helps about 30mins a day will help fight the depression. i hope this helps

Having kids and a career is the most wonderful thing, worth all the hassle.

Why don't you find a little kitten that looks a bit like a jaguar, and call it The Jaguar?

You could aim to become a wildlife expert & specialise in tracking real wild jaguars (they are endangered and need our help).

The curse of being young- you have to suffer courtesy of the ineptitude of others. Try to think of it like this- in 5 years your 18 and will be able to take a great deal more control of your life- your more than halfway through the shitty period- why quit now?

Theres no simple cure or anything anyone can say to solve depression (when was the last time you met someone who said "I was depressed, but seeing a councilor and taking the prescription drugs sorted it right out)- one thing that makes me feel better is the knowledge that people that are happy all the time tend to be quite thick. Better to be clever and miserable than stupid and happy...

Boy did your "note" dig into my soul. Your parents getting divorced have nothing to do with you or your siblings, it has to do with the feeling they have for each other. Killing yourself would add pain to your brother and sister's life not to mention your parents, grandparents etc. Hurting yourself won't do a thing either except hurt you and aren't you the one hurting already? School isn't far away, see a consular as soon as you can and talk to them about this. They are trained for this and believe me can do a much better job then a bunch of "YAHOO's that really couldn't find their heads with both hands.

Hey hon, I wish I could give you a big hug! Don't give up, because you'll hurt more people than just your parents and yourself if you kill yourself. You said you know you want to live.. I want you to live, too! Remember in all the movies? The heros have plenty of chances to give up, but they don't! Live and Grow and Learn and Laugh (and own a Jaguar!). We all go through the same dissappointments and crud in life, believe me! Hold onto your dream and don't despair!

I've been through something somewhat similar. My parents just recently got divorced, my ex-bf commited suicide, etc. etc. i used to cut, got caught. i used to smoke, had to stop. Try to stop cutting. go to a doctor if you can. If you are really depressed according to the questions they ask then they might reccommend a theripist or anti-depressants. After a while the cutting'll stop working or you'll do it deeper and deeper until you do it without noticing.

i understand how you feel do not worry about your parents but spend more time playing with your brothers or sisters and when your parents r fighting go to a room that is quiet and go to a happy place if you cut yourself be more cafeful with you surroundings. Im going to tell YOU 2 THINGS FIRST DO NOT COMIT SUISIDE IT WILL NOT GET ANY BETER IT WILL MAKE YOUR FAM SADDER BALIEVE ME NO SUISIDE. also if you want to own a nice jaguarthan live your dream and do not worry about others belive me imn no siciatrist im a 10 your old boy but i know

alot of my friends have lost moms of parents got devorsed but now they lead nomal lives.

Ur only hurting your self by cutting yourself.... If you sit down and tal to them and explain what your feeling It may help you and them .... Anyways it may be better that your parents separate than stay together and be misable even though it may stuff everyone may be happier in the future ............Life is hard and if you just give up you'll miss out in soooooooo much !!! And even thought your parents are hurting you they might not even now that they are !!!!