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I am sorry about your tragic loss of your sister. Hope you will work to be a help to her three children. This is a time for family to bind together. As for a cure for your hurt: time is the only cure. I think people expect you to be hurt to the point of crying and there is more right about crying than not crying. The only small bit of advise from my life losses is that just take it one day at a time. After you make the first year, you will be able to make it in year two. And so on. No, it would will not be easy. Think of the kids and what your sister would have wanted. I stopped some very bad habits as way to pay tribute from the loss of two family members in a 6 month period. I was next to crazy. But, somehow, we have to go on. May the Good Lord bless your sister and all of you who are missing her.

Well I haven't lost a sibling, but I did lose my mother five years ago when I was 10 so I know what's it's like to lose someone close. I have talked with one counselor and one professional therapist/psychologist, (the therapist I talked to for 3 months, and that was actually this year, so I am still coping) and that did help somewhat to cope. Having friends to talk to and be supportive of you is also very important. Spend time with your other family as well. For what I've been through though, I can say time heals most wounds.

Five years ago my daughter died of Cancer, it still feels like it was yesterday. You will go thru many different moods.You will be angry, you will be sad, and somedays you will be able to get thru the day, and somedays you will feel that you can't go on. I know that she will be watching over you, and hoping you will become close to her children, because in them she lives. You can keep her memory alive thru them. I know how hard this is for you, and right now no matter what anyone says if not going to help. But just keep talking to her I believe she hears you. Find a group that is going thru the same thing as you, and attend the meetings, this can help. Sometimes thru the church or other organizations they have them. Have Faith, and strength you will get there and you will be fine, Know that she will always be in your heart. May she rest in peace. My prayer go out to you and your family.

Just keep a close relationship with the Lord our father and he will give you the strength you need to weather the storm. Losing someone close is very hard and you will need strength and faith to get you through. Crying is healthy and it's normal during grieving. I am so sorry for your loss and I have prayed for you.

u just gotta be strong take care of her kids

i havent lost a sibling but i lost my grandpa about a year and a half ago and i was closer to him then my parents who live with me my grandpa lived like over 5hrs or 500kms from me and i only spent a few weeks with him a year but what i found worked is just every now and then i just gotta take a minute to cry it also helps if u talk to ppl it really works someone thats close to u that like u can lean on their shoulder and cry or just give them a hug or something like that just talk to ppl it works wonders

i havent lost any silblings

but im so sorry for the news.

you need to know she was suffering.

and shes not anymore.

shes in heaven and shes not worring about whats going to happen to her kids.

you have to be strong for them and help them with everything.

if they see you crying and upset...

there going to feel the same way

if you need to cry

go to the bathroom its just as hard for them as it is for you.

i really hope you the best and god bless you all.

You don't want to hear this..but you will never get over it...the best thing to do is accept it with dignity and keep active....I wish I could say that she is in a better place, but being an atheist, I can't. ..it will a little better with time....buut you will completely never get over it..my condolences.

aww im sorry to hear that :( but only time can make u feel better :( ull get used to it :( .. time flies :( just dont think about it too much :( i know its hard, i dont know what its like, but im pretty sure u wont be able to deal with it right now .. as time passes by, ull deal with it :(

i'm sorry, but please try to be strong and take care of her little boys.

they need someone to help then be strong. give them an example and focus on them for now.

ur loupy, mr.lupus. im sorry for that unfortunate event. i recomend writting a book