inter-racial marriage.....?

I am very conservative when it comes to most of the issues. my mother is VERY liberal. I believe that people are people. race is just the color of skin, and nothing more.

When I was little, I watched a show where a white man married a black woman. my grandmother explained to me how wrong that was. I understood, she was born in a time of heavy racism. but my mom also feels this way. not that African Americans are scum or anything...but that you shouldn't mix races with them. "A white and a Mexican is Ok, but never a white and a black, eeew." she said.

now, I have a problem. there is a girl I really like at school. she's sweet and very pretty. I don't know if I'd go out with her, but probably if I got to know her. there's only one problem: I'm white and she's an African American. I'm afraid to socialize with her, because I know that my mother would feel odd about a relationship with a black girl. it's not like she's forbid it or anything, but she just would act oddly.

to tell you the truth, I think that African American women posess a down-home elegance that I find very warm and attractive.

what do you think? should I get to know this girl, or should I respect my mother's feelings?

Update:

Nikolaos and Zena E.: great advice, as alwayse! thanks!

Update 3:

Bocner: while most here would disagree with you, I definatly see your point. but I highly doubt that race and IQ have anything to do with eachother. race should be preserved, yes. but I don't think that the whole of the white race rests on my shoulders. and besides, science tells us that genetic diversity make for a stronger (human) race. lol, take that 9th grade biology class!

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