im asking this question because ALOT of people in this section i noticed are VERY oppiniated and so im curious to know what you yall think about this...
I am all for it personally... being raised with a black mother and white father i have no choice haha.. but on a serious note though i luv ALL people.. and in my oppinion there is no reason for anyone to NOT agree with interracial relationships i mean you cant help who you fall in luv with..
Update:and to the "boots" guy... or girl.. if you EVER been in a relationship you would know what i mean when i say "you cant help who you fall in love with"
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I don't disagree with it. People should like whoever it is they like, but for me personally...I'm not attracted to blacks :O
oh god I'M A RACIST!!
w/e
Anyone who is in a relationship strictly because of race is on the wrong track, whether it's the same or different races.
BUT, that doesn't mean that being attracted to a feature common to an ethnic group is off base. Take the classic example: "Tall, dark, and handsome". A man from ANY race could fall into that category -- it's just less common to see white men with black hair & melting brown eyes. So why would anyone ignore 2/3 of the male population just to stay within their color lines? If a woman prefers blonds, well, that does narrow the scope a bit -- but again, to each her own.
And more importantly, if a man is a good man -- if he is kind, loving, funny, and attractive -- only a complete lunatic is going to blow him off over a detail like race. If more people realized this, maybe there would be a few more happy marriages out there.
I've never understood what the big deal was. I don't let society dictate who I should interact with and who I should love and marry--that is up to me after all! The same should apply to anyone and everyone else.
I've always enjoyed a wide variety of friends and relationships. I feel a person truly misses out by only interacting with members of his or her race.
I'm all for IR relationships too--I've been IR married for over 18 years. I was dating IR before it was the "hip" thing to do--funny, I don't even really think about the fact that my husband and I are different races anymore. That being said, I also support ANY loving and committed relationship. IR are great, but they are not any more special than relationships in which the couple is the same race.
Absolutely. Agreed. And have you noticed that I think God encourages love between all races that way because some of the most gorgeous human beings are the product of interracial marriage. It's a beautiful thing:)
My bf is black and I'm white. I like him being different than me, I wouldn't want someone too much like me. He's interesting and we're always learning from eachother.
Love knows no color.
I completely agree. I'm hispanic and my boyfriend is turkish. We're from completely different cultures but it's obviously not a problem because we've been together for 2+ years. You can't help who you fall in love with, like you said.
I agree with it, but I think it is done for the wrong reasons way too much, the disparity between races and genders tells this to me. Some people are looking for interracial relationships, instead of relationships, and that is a recipe for disaster.
I answer these questions the same way haha.
My cousins on my mom's side are all mixed with either Black or White.
They're Hapas
http://www.seaweedproductions.com/hapa/default.htm
My siblings only date outside their race.
I have dated non-Asians in the past (this includes Black, Latino, and White men).
We're attracted to whoever we're attracted to.
I don't agree or disagree its some else life. Its just annoying to hear people devaluing a Black man or woman worth because of their past experience or infatuation of another race.
What's there to disagree with? Unless you're a Concerned Old B itch for America.
Agreed.....married to a black man for 12 years and two BEAUTIFUL!!! children.
Maybe one day , we will all be the same color, due to interracial relationships and then the critics/haters/ uneducated.....can find something else to complain about!
There is absolutely nothing wrong with interracial relationships.