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I don't think that there are many Japanese that find white girls downright ugly.

There are several Japanese that would just love to date a white girl. There are also Japanese that think white girls look cute, but are a bit afraid they won't be able to communicate well with them and fear the language and culture barrier.

In most big cities there are a lot of Asians, including Japanese.

I think a white girl has a better chance to find a good Asian guy to be her long term bf in a big city in the west, than in Asia.

If you can find a friend who is at mixi, try to get a mixi account and search for Japanese who live in your area. (Mixi is Japans largest social network)

Asians who have lived in the west longer will be more understanding of the cultural difference and easier to get along with, so try to find one who has been abroad for some time ;-)

Or you can also try some online dating sites for Asian guys and white girls, like

http://www.hey-ai.com/

Btw I recommend you also give Chinese guys and other Asian guys a chance, they look as handsome as Japanese guys, and there's more of them ;-)

its mostly usually chinese that like whites

they have a very small penis