Im 17, and i have a large labia minora and I just got my first boyfriend, and I am extremely nervous he will be turned off by this. Is it common? And is it a huge turn off?
It's totally normal - look at the chart below. I've slept with about 20 women and several of them had long labia minoras. Like most men, I really didn't care at all.
No real man would turn up his nose at sex because he didn't like your lips - it would be like a hungry person refusing a meal because they thought there were too many beans on the plate!
The problem is between your ears, not between your legs. You need to love your whole body. Imagine having sex where your main focus is on your pleasure and his pleasure, not on one tiny bit of your body. That's your goal - now go for it!
if you two love eachother then he wont care at all about the way you look, but if YOU are uncomfortable with it then i woudl recomend a labiaplasty, i just had one done and i love the results. i feel so much more confident and sexy !
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It's totally normal - look at the chart below. I've slept with about 20 women and several of them had long labia minoras. Like most men, I really didn't care at all.
No real man would turn up his nose at sex because he didn't like your lips - it would be like a hungry person refusing a meal because they thought there were too many beans on the plate!
The problem is between your ears, not between your legs. You need to love your whole body. Imagine having sex where your main focus is on your pleasure and his pleasure, not on one tiny bit of your body. That's your goal - now go for it!
if you two love eachother then he wont care at all about the way you look, but if YOU are uncomfortable with it then i woudl recomend a labiaplasty, i just had one done and i love the results. i feel so much more confident and sexy !