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im so sorry hun i do feel your pain i have lost 2 babies this year.

its about time and healing its rough to begin with your emotions are every were but it does get better eventually but cry talk or don't say anything if that is how you feel.

its the worse pain i have ever been through and my heart goes out to you

If you are miscarrying, it is because something was wrong with the pregnancy and it is for the best.

I know it is painful for you to let go of the newly lost baby, but time will heal your pain. Plus, you already have a beautiful child who needs your love and attention now!

I have miscarried before- twice actually. The first time it was very early, about 10 weeks, and it was easier to get over. The second time, I miscarried at 15 weeks and pretty much gave birth to a very tiny baby in my toilet. It was devastating and I thought I would never be able to have children!

I am now 34 weeks pregnant with my first child and can only hope for the best- although the end is finally drawing near!

You will feel better in time, and will likely have healthy thriving pregnancies in the future. If you are having a miscarriage, you should definitely go to the hospital to make sure the entire placenta is delivered to keep yourself out of danger.

It's not your fault!!! There must've been something wrong with the baby that caused the miscarriage, it's nothing you did, these horrible things just happen.

I'm so sorry for your loss and no matter what we say, it's not going to make it hurt any less, but don't be so hard on yourself. You need to stay strong for the baby that is here and needs you!! When things are right, you'll get pregnant again!!

Good luck and keep looking at your beautiful 8 month old for comfort!!

My 1st born was 3 months old when I lost my second baby. I am not sure she knew cause she was so small. Even thought I have another healthy baby, you will always wonderful what might of been. The hurt does lessen over time (its been 2 1/2 years for me now) but it will hurt for awhile. Give yourself time and talk about it with someone you feel safe with. And remember no matter what anyone says. You lost a baby, a baby that you loved. Good Luck and I am so sorry !

I too feel your pain! I lost my second pregnancy at 7 weeks pregnant. I was so happy to have my 1 year old daughter, seeing her smile really helped me get through the pain!

A miscarriage is painful, but just remember that it is so common. 1/3 of all pregnancies end up in miscarriage. Don't blame yourself as its nothing you did, m/c is just your body's natural way of ending a pregnancy where the embryo couldn't have developed properly.

Everything happens for a reason. Just keep your chin up and hug your 8 month old. You'll get through this! God bless!

You know- that is a really hard thing to go through. I went through the same thing with my first pregnancy. However, you do get passed it. Any time I look at either of my kids I remember the first pregnancy- the unborn child. You will never forget but try to think about the future and the family that is to come. I know it is hard now, but it does get easier one day at a time.

After my miscarriage it took me months to get over it. But about 6 months later I was pregnant with my son and everything worked out perfectly.

Warm thoughts are being sent your way.

i've had three losses, and it's always painful. i know my kids knew something was wrong with mommy...i am so sorry for your loss. it's important to go to see your doctor...sometimes a d&c is necessary to stop the bleeding. i lost alot of blood with my last miscarriage, at 12 weeks, and ended up having a d&c.

you do eventually get past it, but you never get over it. it's something you learn to live with. the internet, and alot of myspace groups, helped me alot. here is a site you might want to look at...

http://www0.epinions.com/content_4867072132

Why do you feel guilty? You've done nothing wrong. You need to get to a doctor or hospital quickly.

oh no sorry to heard bot it =( i hope u b ok soon x

but u need to check up with blood test to see if its cofirm miscarriage.. cos some of women get heavy blood they thought they had miscarriage but they not really there.. just make sure sweetie

aww dont feel guilty..its not your fault.

im so sorry bout that..

im 4 months and 15.. [i kno i kno its young but if you knew my life youd understand]

and i get scared about loosing my baby...i kno i would cry for months bcuz i care for it so much already..

dont blame yourself jus know everything happens for a reason.

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