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go to a doc

It's really important to withdraw just after climax, and you should actually hold the base of the condom while you pull out to make sure it stays on. Once you ejaculate, you start to get smaller and you're slippery inside the condom. It's actually really easy for it to come off and not unheard of for it to remain inside your partner.

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Yes, it has to come out, but no, it won't likely come out on its own. You or she, after washing hands, can try to retrieve it. Insert two fingers and use them as pincers or tongs. Be very gentle, but try to find it and pull it out. The vagina does not go on forever, and the condom can't get up into her uterus or anything so if it was there, it still is.

If you're not able to retrieve it yourselves, then the doctor is the way to go.

More importantly though, since it came off, you and she are not protected against pregnancy/diseases. Please do see the doctor, both of you. Treat this as though you've had unprotected sex. If pregnancy is possible, have her call her doc immediately about emergency contraception and both of you should be tested now, and again in a few months.

Lastly, realize this isn't that uncommon and it doesn't have to be terribly embarrassing. If you're mature enough to have sex, then you'll have to be able to handle these oddities that come with it. :)

Best of luck to you both.

It is possible for it to still be inside her. Have her try to find it first, then if she can't, if you feel comfortable you could look and see if you can find it. If you still have no luck, have her relax and bear down and try to push it out. If nothing works, she will have to see a doctor. If she leaves it in there it can cause a very dangerous infection. Also, that means that your semen probably went inside her as well. If possible have her take a Plan B pill.

The same thing happened to me. Don't worry about getting it out because the "damage" is done. If she's going to get pregnant, getting the condom out won't prevent it now. I would just wait until it comes out on its own. It will. the body will eventually get rid of it in a few days. Don't try to get it out. It's only going to hurt and irritate that sensitive area.

It ended up coming out a week later and I didn't get pregnant =)

She needs to lay on her back spead wide open. You or she can fish around inside with a finger until you find it. Pull it out and take plan b.

Interesting! Generally if it is 'shoved up into her' the vaginal discharge should get it out, and when she has her period it should pass. Go to the doctor incase.

Good luck.

ask her to put her fingers inside and see if she can feel anything, if so just pull it out. erm not sure, i havnt experienced this but i think it could happen.i doubt it will come out on its own.

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See if she can pee it out, or have her feel for it. If she can get it out she will be fine. If not, see a doctor.

omg. u need to try to get it out...n not wait for it to come out on its own. if u can't get it out, then she definitely needs to go to the doc to get it removed

tell her to go to the dr

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