Men, how do you judge women's attractiveness?
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- Do you believe that attractiveness is based on fact or opinion? (that is when you factor out healthiness) I'm talking about bone structure.
The FACT about a woman's beauty is how healthy she is and the NATURAL beauty she has to an individual man's eyes. Not from how much make up she puts on or how her "bone structure" is or how anorexic she becomes.
I just want to find out about the open minded-ness/arrogance.
Update:Yes, but you can't just treat a woman worse because she is ugly in your eyes.
Update 3:Randolf - That's what I said. It is variaty and opinion when it is bone structure. I'm saying you can't label as a fact that certain stuctures are ugly.
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It is definitely based on opinion. Without speaking to a girl, its mostly off the vibe and her physical appearance is, but there are factors that play in to that. Such as is she loaded up on make up or is it natural. I mean i have no problem if a girl wears a little make-up or alot on a special occasion.
As far as size goes, there is such a thing as too skinny where it is unattractive. Like bony I-can-count-your-rib-bones skinny. When you actually talk to the girl then her personality comes into play.
I always say that a person's appearance can get them through the door but it's their personality that will keep them inside.
To the *heart* user, i can say she is pretty but i dont find her attractive
Bone structure has everything to do with beauty. Every individual man is attracted to a certain type. If everyone had the same bone structure (and like you said, only health mattered) then we would not have so much variety in beauty. Make-up only enhances beauty by accentuating healthy characteristics and downplaying those that may reflect a lack of health. Make-up can't create beauty out of nothing.
Bone shape has each thing to do with splendor. each individual guy is fascinated in a definite form. If everybody had an identical bone shape (and such as you suggested, only well being mattered) then we does not have lots sort in splendor. makeup only complements splendor by accentuating healthful features and downplaying those that would mirror a loss of well being. makeup won't be able to create splendor out of not something.
Beauty is not always "beauty". Beauty and attractiveness can often be debatable. Ever seen a man or woman with an "ugly" boyfriend or girlfriend. They may be ugly to you but to them they are probably attractive.
Beautiful is beautiful. Most men find a beautiful girl attractive. No man can say Grace Kelly is ugly.
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The sex appeal of a woman depends almost entirely on physical appearance. The sex appeal of men depends on more than just physical appearance (money, intelligence, power, athleticism, sense of humor). That's just a fact of human sexual psychology.
Are women less shallow than men? I'd say not really or not by much. They're just attracted to other things than physical appearance...hey, sex is sex.
I judge women's sexual attractiveness based on the way they look, period. I judge whether I want them as a partner by the way they act, how kind they are to others, how they respect me and others ect.
I don't think that anyone should judge the value of a woman based only on her physical appearance.
But I think it's perfectly reasonable for a man to decide whether he wants to have sex with her or not based on her physical appearance.