hello,
i am a 28 year MALE engg. from gujarat..i am married and i have a kid. i m married since last 4 years. when i was the age of year 17i started masterbating..it became my habit later on.as i need to mastrubate.3-4 times a week.i thoought when i would get married..this habbit will be left..but it dindt worked..let me add to this..along with masturbation, i often use to watch adult movies.
but now when i am at the age of 29 my that habbit has become worse. now i need to mastrubate daily(yes.7 or more in a week) and untill that i get distrubed..now i daily need to see adult films and than mastrubate.i am very tired with this bad habbit, as i fell very weekness physiclly as well as mentaly.My anger has also gradually increased.i think.i get irritate very fast..it also distrubs me in my carrier.as i can not concentrate on that also.
my marriage life is average.she is less intrestedin sex, but i think i am more sexulally aggesive. please help me to come up from all these problems.
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Hello,Having read what you have said,it seems like you are living your life as a fantasy by having sex with imaginary ppl whilst masturbating.
This is not uncommon amongst those who feel unconnected with their loved one /partner to partake of this practise.
Maybe you could channel that sexual energy towards your wife in a way to make her feel loved and important in your life.
Woo her , if you understand me, you will find she will be more responsive to your advances if you take it slowly by showing her love and affection firstly without all the anger.
Then maybe you can direct the lust you feel by watching adult movies into a more productive settled life at home and work...
You need to talk it over with your wife at what your feeling then act upon getting your life in order,,, cheers
if you can already see the bad part of it then why dont you just stop???try your best to avoid it for a day and gradually you will improve this habit.bad habits are easy to get but not that easy to leave.
take ur wife...hold her...n make love