go relax, whatever you do don't sit at home and get depressed it makes things so much harder and it'll be harder to get over him because he's probably out having fun & you should be too, your completely right it's summer and like you said people say go hang out with friends which is completely right, sitting there being lonely is going to make things worse, ask some friends to do something one night when they aren't busy or during the day, or ask if you can hang out with them, go make new friends..
put your makeup on, fix your hair, get off the computer, go do something thats going to make you happy! it's summer girl theres no need to just be sitting at home! lol i know i'm on the computer too but thats cause i'm at work and it's slow so i'm trying to help people cause thats something i like to do :) but theres no need for you to sit around and mope about this, my boyfriend and i of 2 years and 6 months broke up in may and yeah it was super hard at first because everything about my house especially my room reminded me of him and i had sooo many pictures of us everywhere so i had to take them down and it wasn't easy but still i couldn't just sit at home, and sometimes it's still hard for me to just sit at home, because it brings back all the memories we had together, thats why everynight i didn't care if i had school and work the next day everynight i would go out with some friends and just get my mind of things, i was never home except to sleep but it helped because now yeah it still sucks because he was everything but now i have my own life again and i'm way happier than i've ever been just living life, not planning ahead, not worrying about tomorrow and forgetting all the bad stuff that happened because lifes short, this summer has already flown by we only have about a month before school starts back and you just have to live in the moment and do what makes you happy, get out there & have fun!!
Don't be sad because it's over. Be happy because it happened.
But the truth is...the best way to mend a broken heart...is time...and other boys.
There's a reason why you two broke up...and that reason is because one day you are going to be with "the one" and your going to realize why it never worked out with any of your exes.
You will get thru this. I promise. If he's dumb enuf to walk away be smart enuf to let him go.
You need to leave this boy , ok and change your name too .Call your friends or invite them over .
They will support you , you will see.You will fell lonely for awhile only because you will miss your boyfriend alot and because your probably pushing people away because your hurt but sometimes you need to do what your mind is telling you not your heart...I was in the same situation and I turned to my family and friends...
im going through this right now but honestly nothing will help & ive learned that the hard way...first off get rid of anything that reminds you of him! it may be hard but trust me...STOP listening to any sad music, listen to songs of how your bettter then him. keep on reminding yourself of things you hated about him & not things you like.
after your done doing all the above, then start talking to some close friends again & tell them what been goiong on, they should understand...mine did. & just start hanging out with them & give it some time! things will get better, hope your okay!
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have a spa day :)
go relax, whatever you do don't sit at home and get depressed it makes things so much harder and it'll be harder to get over him because he's probably out having fun & you should be too, your completely right it's summer and like you said people say go hang out with friends which is completely right, sitting there being lonely is going to make things worse, ask some friends to do something one night when they aren't busy or during the day, or ask if you can hang out with them, go make new friends..
put your makeup on, fix your hair, get off the computer, go do something thats going to make you happy! it's summer girl theres no need to just be sitting at home! lol i know i'm on the computer too but thats cause i'm at work and it's slow so i'm trying to help people cause thats something i like to do :) but theres no need for you to sit around and mope about this, my boyfriend and i of 2 years and 6 months broke up in may and yeah it was super hard at first because everything about my house especially my room reminded me of him and i had sooo many pictures of us everywhere so i had to take them down and it wasn't easy but still i couldn't just sit at home, and sometimes it's still hard for me to just sit at home, because it brings back all the memories we had together, thats why everynight i didn't care if i had school and work the next day everynight i would go out with some friends and just get my mind of things, i was never home except to sleep but it helped because now yeah it still sucks because he was everything but now i have my own life again and i'm way happier than i've ever been just living life, not planning ahead, not worrying about tomorrow and forgetting all the bad stuff that happened because lifes short, this summer has already flown by we only have about a month before school starts back and you just have to live in the moment and do what makes you happy, get out there & have fun!!
good luck girl!!! you'll be fine :)
Don't be sad because it's over. Be happy because it happened.
But the truth is...the best way to mend a broken heart...is time...and other boys.
There's a reason why you two broke up...and that reason is because one day you are going to be with "the one" and your going to realize why it never worked out with any of your exes.
You will get thru this. I promise. If he's dumb enuf to walk away be smart enuf to let him go.
You need to leave this boy , ok and change your name too .Call your friends or invite them over .
They will support you , you will see.You will fell lonely for awhile only because you will miss your boyfriend alot and because your probably pushing people away because your hurt but sometimes you need to do what your mind is telling you not your heart...I was in the same situation and I turned to my family and friends...
i know exactly how you feel!
im going through this right now but honestly nothing will help & ive learned that the hard way...first off get rid of anything that reminds you of him! it may be hard but trust me...STOP listening to any sad music, listen to songs of how your bettter then him. keep on reminding yourself of things you hated about him & not things you like.
after your done doing all the above, then start talking to some close friends again & tell them what been goiong on, they should understand...mine did. & just start hanging out with them & give it some time! things will get better, hope your okay!