Talk to her about it maybe its something thats going on in her life and thats why she over reacts but if you just ignore her prating then she will notice that you dont care and give up (not that Im saying that this could turn out good) either one could work Im sure the first one is better, I mean Im sure lots of girls go through that kind of thing if they are having issues or something or if she feels that you aren't paying attention or something Help her out be her guide be there for her when she needs you the most. Good luck :)
Nobody but her can change and she should want to change on her own. If this is how she's going to be every time something doesn't go her way or you make her mad, then perhaps you just have to accept her for the way she is. This IS who she is. How long do you want to deal with this? A few more days, weeks, months, a few years? Can you imagine being married to her and dealing with this? if every time she gets upset is she going to bring up divorce?
I'd HIGHLY suggest you sit down and talk to her. It's not about treating her, it's about letting her know how you feel. Communication is VERY much apart of relationships. She can't guess or read your mind and you can't expect her to fix the problem if you never tell her. you have to talk to her. if she's a good girlfriend, she should understand and try to settle. However if she turns things around on you, can't admit her faults and blames you, perhaps it's time to part ways.
Well, you say she looses her temper all the time, if that's true, simply say these things as calmly as possible: 'Sweetie, I'm sorry you're upset. Please let me know what you'd like me to do on my part in order to make the situation better for the both of us.' These words usually help the person realize that whatever is going on isn't all 1 person's fault as well as showing you care about your relationship together, which in this case you do, it's a good idea to show it :D .But if this doesn't really happen ALL the time, then be as supportive as possible, and realize that females feel very insecure and edgy when on their period...
Honestly. Thats one hard question to answer..but I'll give it a go.. Try and make her understand your situation hoping she'll understand. Perhaps tell her parents about this, or somebody to help back you up? If shes like this, then perhaps breaking up with her might be the better option, to get her off your chest. But if you really love this girl and think shes the one then keep trying. But otherwise, its better ti lay off. She's putting too much onto you.
She seems like she is being selfish. Like she is considering only her own feelings and not hers. Maybe you should break up but that is never the first answer. Especially if you really care about her. So i would try sitting her down and letting her know how you feel, but try your best to not offend her. She could be self conscious, who knows? But you have to let her know how you feel. If you listens that's great and you'll be making progress, if she doesn't listen that is an indicator that maybe it won't work out. Hope this helps.
Just tell her u will do better and to not bring that up cuz it breaks ur heart if it does but if she doesn't appreciate u get rid of her .. Don't waist ur time cuz someone else will treat u better.
She is very insecure and figures she will hurt you before you hurt her or she is a complete control freak???? Is she apologetic days later and vows never to act that way again? Either accept her as she is (empty threats and all) or cut ties asap...peo
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Talk to her about it maybe its something thats going on in her life and thats why she over reacts but if you just ignore her prating then she will notice that you dont care and give up (not that Im saying that this could turn out good) either one could work Im sure the first one is better, I mean Im sure lots of girls go through that kind of thing if they are having issues or something or if she feels that you aren't paying attention or something Help her out be her guide be there for her when she needs you the most. Good luck :)
Nobody but her can change and she should want to change on her own. If this is how she's going to be every time something doesn't go her way or you make her mad, then perhaps you just have to accept her for the way she is. This IS who she is. How long do you want to deal with this? A few more days, weeks, months, a few years? Can you imagine being married to her and dealing with this? if every time she gets upset is she going to bring up divorce?
I'd HIGHLY suggest you sit down and talk to her. It's not about treating her, it's about letting her know how you feel. Communication is VERY much apart of relationships. She can't guess or read your mind and you can't expect her to fix the problem if you never tell her. you have to talk to her. if she's a good girlfriend, she should understand and try to settle. However if she turns things around on you, can't admit her faults and blames you, perhaps it's time to part ways.
Well, you say she looses her temper all the time, if that's true, simply say these things as calmly as possible: 'Sweetie, I'm sorry you're upset. Please let me know what you'd like me to do on my part in order to make the situation better for the both of us.' These words usually help the person realize that whatever is going on isn't all 1 person's fault as well as showing you care about your relationship together, which in this case you do, it's a good idea to show it :D .But if this doesn't really happen ALL the time, then be as supportive as possible, and realize that females feel very insecure and edgy when on their period...
Honestly. Thats one hard question to answer..but I'll give it a go.. Try and make her understand your situation hoping she'll understand. Perhaps tell her parents about this, or somebody to help back you up? If shes like this, then perhaps breaking up with her might be the better option, to get her off your chest. But if you really love this girl and think shes the one then keep trying. But otherwise, its better ti lay off. She's putting too much onto you.
She seems like she is being selfish. Like she is considering only her own feelings and not hers. Maybe you should break up but that is never the first answer. Especially if you really care about her. So i would try sitting her down and letting her know how you feel, but try your best to not offend her. She could be self conscious, who knows? But you have to let her know how you feel. If you listens that's great and you'll be making progress, if she doesn't listen that is an indicator that maybe it won't work out. Hope this helps.
Just tell her u will do better and to not bring that up cuz it breaks ur heart if it does but if she doesn't appreciate u get rid of her .. Don't waist ur time cuz someone else will treat u better.
She is very insecure and figures she will hurt you before you hurt her or she is a complete control freak???? Is she apologetic days later and vows never to act that way again? Either accept her as she is (empty threats and all) or cut ties asap...peo