We've been dating so far for about 3 weeks, and her ex named Garrett is so evil, cunning and manipulative.
When they were dating, she was asking him to go dance with her, he said no..called her a *****, she then slapped her..and he kicked her in the stomach and the police got involved she was also coughing up blood.
He also, has twisted her arm multiple times when she'd get on his nerves even when she'd never hit him..she never ever really did even physically punch him..
Lets examine the traits:
failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors as indicated by repeatedly
He hits her, and treats her bad..not socially accepted or legally.
performing acts that are grounds for arrest;
Hit her..
deception, as indicated by repeatedly lying, use of aliases, or conning others for personal profit or pleasure;
He' has manipulated her multiple times on many different things, he LOVES messing with her feelings and seeing people argue while he's in control of it! He loves getting pleasure from it.
impulsivity or failure to plan ahead;
He is VERY impulsive, said and done.
irritability and aggressiveness, as indicated by repeated physical fights or assaults;
He has hit her a lot..pretty obvious.
reckless disregard for safety of self or others;
Don't really know what he has done for that!
consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain consistent work behavior or honor financial obligations;
VERY Irresponsible.
lack of remorse, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another;
he has hit his ex, (my current g.f), mistreated and stolen not fully sure..
Anyways, his dad also told him having emotions is for the weak...
So yea..
And we're all 3 teens, me soon to join the Navy am scared that while i'm off at boot camp, that she'll be hurt by him.
'Cause he's scared of me, i'm much bigger than he is but he's bigger than her.
Answers & Comments
uhm almost none of those are the signs of a sociopath first of all sociopaths manipulate people with their mind not physical violence sociopaths can conform perfectly with society except they have no value of human life not all sociopaths are impulsive that just a trait that any human can gain sociopath or not sociopaths are usually very cool calm collected and plan very far ahead sounds like he's just some abusive asshole theres really nothing you can do but get one of your friend to watch over her but he'll probably end up stealing her from you unless it is one really really good friend
Take her to the nearest gun range,make sure she posts it as her fb photo, that'll scare him.
I hope that with time he realizes his fathers mistake and becomes a better person but make sure your girlfriend knows he's psycho and and to have zero contact. Call ,email etc her as much as you can. She obviously has some issues of her own if she put up with that treatment make sure she's working on that.
Put word out through mutal people to warn him if you even hear he thought of her you'll ....idk...