There is nothing good about me at all! I am 18 but i look 15, I cant socalise properly in other words I cant start a conversation or keep one going. I suck at making friends I barely have friends (2 which have other friends and they dont hang around with me often........... I guess I dont have friends)
All I do is sit in my bedroom all day playing on the xbox and I have a feeling my dad hates me since I sometimes go out with my mum (because I have no friends) so he refers me as their "pet". girls hate me because when I talk ti them they seem to "Have a boyfriend or just walk away". My facial expression always looks miserable.
So should I give up on my life and except myself as a virgin forever or can you make me feel better.
(Also I live in the UK)
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“Someone doesn’t like you? Fxck it. Having a bad day? Fxck it. Didn’t get that job, or that grade, or that promotion you wanted? Fxck it. Fighting with your lover? Fxck it. Feel fat today? Fxck it. Losing control of everything and everyone? Fxck it. What matters now won’t matter soon; the truly important thing is that …you are alive, and that you have the capacity to do absolutely anything with this beautiful, crazy coincidence of being on this earth."
Gerard Way.
You need life coaching, either professional, or at least consult with people as much as you can. Remember to ask questions, and don't present yourself negatively as you have done here; ask a question about what you should do, what would be better, etc.
Think and talk positively: looking younger than your age can be a great asset, as you can potentially blend in with more age groups. As you practice speaking and increase your level of education you will become a better speaker. Practicing in front of a mirror isn't bad. Take those opportunities with your mum to practice these communication skills. That's the reason her friends "like" you, they want to help you improve yourself.
You don't have to have sex. Just wait for it to happen, while you work on your social skills and improve your spelling.
honestly, you sound depressed and not confident about yourself. Honestly bro, smoke weed. I know UK has some good weed. If you havent smoked weed before its totally chill. It can help depression and helps you eat. All you feel is like, happy and chill. I love paying video games high. But it also helps you socialise. I smoke weed everyday, no exaggeration. It's a way of my life and soon to be yours. Your life sucks and i have a feeling your a little pussy so just try it. Ciggerates are worse. Ciggerates give you a nasty feeling. Weed is all natural. I dont even look at it as "getting high" it's just a way of my life. To just chill and be worry free and just feel good about yourself listening to music.
im just like you,i have social anxiety and it is ruining my life,i got no friends.but don't give up no,you can do something about your social life.join clubs, i bet you will find someone you can relate to ,that way you will have something to talk about which you like .i think you are better its better looking a little bit younger than really old,im almost 17 (girl) people tell me i look 26 yeah :( .you probably approach the rude girls ,im pretty sure there are girls out there who will like you for who you are.what do you mean your face looks miserable,? try smiling .don't end your life ,you are still young ,you still got a whole life ahead of you,after a huricane comes a rainbow
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